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My dad bought me a vibrator wtf?
My dad caught me masterbating, fingering, jilling off, you know. He couldn't see what I was doing but there was a knowing look, he knew what I was doing.
I live with my dad most the time and he is not good with daughter things, and this is one he wishes mum would have had to 'deal with'. So I was expecting an awkward chat about growing up, but he bottled it, which was more awkward. Then he gives me a present, cool I thought, what could it be, holy fuck it's a vibrator. As a present from my dad, wtf! How am I supposed to react?. Just to clarify it's a bullet vibrator not some rampant rabbit, or a huge cock, it's small and subtle, but still.
He explained how I am growing up and might get curious, and its totally normal, don't be ashamed etc etc, like it's my first time.
'Enjoy!' he said, and he's here if I need to chat, it's ok to talk about these things.
Ok I get he was trying to be cool, and nice, and open about things, but it's weird.
But just to check, how many girls out there have had a sex toy bought for them by their dad? Or any relative for that matter?
I’d suggest to save money eating you out and bringing you off myself.
Ive used a massager i know my dad came all over and then i came on it and each time we went back and forth knowing the other came on it but never ever would we have sex
My dad did too, it just feels awkward. My mom doesn’t know and it makes me embarrassed.
It's hard to know for sure what his intentions were, but I think that they were good. It takes a great deal of courage for a guy to get that type of gift for his daughter and then give it to her. If this was your mother giving you the gift and talking about it you wouldn't be awkward about, so try to be the same way about it with your dad.
But you need to have clear boundaries. If he ever goes from just being a caring parent to indicating in some way that he is interested in you in a sexual way, you need to shut it down. For the first time that he would indicate interest in you, you can be fairly gentle with shutting him down. If it persists, make sure that he knows that is something that is never going to happen and that you are repulsed that he is thinking that way.
Hopefully, it will never come to that.
Well at least your dad is trying, according to my mom my dad does not even know that women can orgasm. I took that to mean that he was really bad at sex but she went on to tell me that he thinks a woman's orgasm is made up because there is no ejaculation. I really did not want to hear anymore so I just sort of nodded and we went onto another topic.
I am getting the idea he is a single dad. He is just trying to be supportive the best way he knows how. I would rather my daughter use a toy then use a boy and get pregnant. He most likely sees it as a investment that all. If you react and make a big deal about it and don’t use it. It will really hurt his feelings. So when he says enjoy it please do.
I buy most my clothes online but I don't really have my own money so my dad either gives me the money or pays. I needed some new underwear, I chose what I wanted and asked him to put payment details in. It was quite a bit of money so he wanted to know what I was buying. I showed him all the pictures of the bras and panties on models which was totally weird. Who looks at models in underwear with their dad?
Some were pretty sexy not everyday stuff, I could see his eyes light up a bit. But he paid for it all so yay.
I also had another order I asked him to pay for, assorted uninteresting things, but I also added lube lol, he asked if I really needed it, I said yes sometimes, girls are not just wet all the time dad. He went bright red, of course he said and clicked order lol
I think your dad should cool out and not talk about it, unless you want to. Just accept the gift, use it, but you don't have to talk about it. My wife and I are raising a boy, and my wife mentioned that she looked at his chromebook's search history and knows he's watching porn. He's been jerking it, 'cause he's at that age. We bought him a Fleshlight and just put it on his dresser. We didn't say a word to him about it, though it's not there anymore and is obviously getting use. If he wants to talk about it, we will. But masturbation is private. If he uses his toy instead of fucking girls, we'll be very pleased.
'not talk about it' now I'm confuses
Your dad did nothing wrong. It's awkward coming from him, yes, but his intentions are good. When I caught our daughter straddling & grinding the arm of our sofa, I told my wife, and we bought her a dildo. I had my wife give it to her and talk about it, because it was less awkward, but it's always odd to have that talk, regardless of which parent it is.
Your Dad is teaching you that sexuality is healthy and normal, sounds like a great Dad.
It's the thought that counts x