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My husband wants me to cheat on him
I'm 32 yr old female, fairly pretty, little bit chunky, but not bad overall. I've been married to my husband for 8 years, we have one child.
Three years ago my husband was diagnosed with prostate and testicle cancer, and had to have everything removed.
Well out of the blue the other day he tells my he would like more children. Well being shocked, I said thats kind of impossible with you being impotent. Thats when he really blew my mind. He said to go out and have sex with other men until I get pregnant.
I suggested going to a clinic and having artificial insemination done. But he said thats too expensive.
I love my husband and have never even thought of another man, let alone cheating on him with someone. But he is pretty persistent about it.
Have any of you other ladies out there, run into this situation?
My wife and I have been married for 20 years. We have it all. House, kids, lots of friends but most importantly our health. Our sex life is good. It was great and as we get older we tend to fall into the same old groove. We tried pegging and it was good and she enjoyed being in charge. We tried a couple of threesomes and that was a lot of fun. The best one was when she was taking in this huge dick and then looked at me and asked me to leave the room. I got so hard listening to then and then listening to him blow his load as I sat in the hallway. We are now at the point where I asked her to go out and cheat on me and then come back home and tell me all about her night out. When she gets home I am rock hard and can not wait to listen to her adventure. We make love like we were teenagers and enjoy every minute of it. We make plans for her to meet this married man about twice a month and it has spiced up our marriage to new heights. I love my wife so much and will never think about being with another woman. She has told me that if at anytime I feel it is time to stop she will. It’s not for everyone but it is definitely good for us!
My husband was paralyzed for several years before I actually stepped out and cheated on him. Then he wanted kids, asked his brother to donate his sperm. But we saved the cash and just did it the old fashion way by having sex
Good for you guys. As long as your husband was on board with it.
My husband had a very over active sex life. That is until he had a similar situation with a bought if cancer. So after a year's worth of surgery, healing, Chemo, healing, radiation, healing, and more Chemo, and healing he was cancer free. However it left him impotent and unable to get an erection. No matter what we tried. ED Pills. injections, even herbal remedies, nothing worked. Over the next two years of the only sex we had was my husband performing oral sex on me, and a few cold latex rubber play toys.
But never once during this entire time did I ever think about cheating on my husband. Until my husband brought up the matter. I'll tell you what, after listening to what my husband to say about how it was okay for me to have an affair with someone. Was sounding like a pretty darn good idea.
However after discussing this idea with one of my girlfriends. She strongly recommended against it, said it would end up causing regrets between my husband and myself.
So at this point in time I'm staying true to my husband. Maybe sometime in the future we might discuss a threesome, I don't know.
I am a man so, no. The sex part is great and it is awesome he wants you to have a fulfilling sex life. I would take him up on it. You still love each other but it's like going to the gym - you are just scratching an itch. You can tell him all about it when you get home as he touches and kisses you. The pregnancy thing is difficult as 50% of the genetics will be from an unknown entity so I would really really need to know the guy well beforehand so there are no weird behavioral/genetic/medical traits in his history (my sensible side talking).