Should I tell my wife?
I really need to have gay sex. I'm not gay but I really feel the overwhelming desire to try it. I'd be fine of she were present but I can understand that might be an off putting ask.
She and I hardly have sex anymore because her sex drive has taken a serious dive. We've talked about it some but she finds it difficult to open up about it. It's really hard on me and while I can imagine it's difficult for her as well, I get the impression that she doesn't care either way about our dying sex life.
I don't want to cheat with other women, I want to have non committal gay sex with men, safely.
Should I tell her or just go out and find some guys that are willing to bottom me very hard?