I went to Bangkok with a group for work while my fiancee was back at home. I spent some time alone checking out the night market and red light zone. I wasn't planning on doing anything but I'd heard about the bargirls and this one girl at the beer bar was all over me, brushing against me and giggling. I had some extra baht and ended up picking up a girl and sealing the deal with her at a nearby hotel.
She was flirty and kind but we didn't get into anything too wild--it felt amazing though and I'm glad to have that experience under my belt. When I was done I went back to meet my coworkers for a late drink. My fiancee has no idea.