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Former slut wife turned cold
I've been married 19 years, but my wife has no interest in sex anymore. She says that it hurts, she has no desire, etc. She's in her mid 50s and I'm in my mid 40s.
The thing is that she used to be hotter than fuck. She was married once before in her 20s, and used to frequent sex parties during which she would suck and fuck miles of dick, sometimes eat pussy too. She even has a box of polaroid photos from some of those events. When I first started dating her, we would screw every day, sometimes two or three times. It was really fantastic for a long time.
Then, about five years ago, it ended. She doesn't even suck my dick anymore. She won't let me dip it in to her vag for just a few strokes either. I'm so fucking depressed. Is this what getting old is like?
Menopause does that to women. Hot flashes, skin crawling sensation, hot and cold sweats, they don't even want to be touched. We have to work slowly and take a long build up with a shit ton of pussy foreplay and lots of lube before she even lets me ease my cock in her. Half the time it's just the tip. The other half it's just for shorter periods of time, no ramming, jack hammering, nothing fast paced. It all has to be so very slow. If I try to pick up the pace and get a good strong rythym going she either tells me to slow down or cries in pain or both. No continuing from that.
Used to be I'd last a long time and cum buckets when we finally climaxed. Now I don't get that kind of time when we are actually piv and for me to get off in her (and she still wants me to cum in her) I have to edge a while as we prepare for penetration. Hell, sometimes even foreplay is too much. For a while we mutually masturbated but not so much anymore. I'll get one finger in and she wants to stop. You may have to wank more often, or take some girlfriends. If not and she continues to have issues you may have to lood elsewhere or even divorce. The use the irreconcilible differences reason most often in these divorces.
She says that it hurts. That is probably a medical issue. She needs to go see a gyn. It may be treatable.