Ladies, can you help me?

It doesn't work for me to pick something and then make it work. I just have to clear my head and see what pops into my head. It will reveal itself right before I orgasm. I don't like sharing what does work because it tends to fit in one of two categories. Either it is something that I have done in the past that I am not particularly proud of. Or it is something that excites me that I would never permit myself to actually do. Either way they are things that I don't like to admit, even to myself. Let alone another person including my husband. Basically I am ashamed of what gets me off.

I agree, i would like to know every thought and fantasy, that way i can make our time together even more pleasurable, and who knows, maybe even venture into some of those fantasies, i would like to fulfill mine and maybe some would be same.

I think about things I could never share with my husband. He just wouldn’t understand. I think about my old neighbor shoving my dress up over my hips, and fucking me hard while sucking my titties. I also think about the fed ex man with his big black cock bending me over on my porch and fucking the daylights out of me. Last but not least I think of one of my husbands friends coming over when he’s not home and sitting in a chair while I ride his cock. I’m naked and he cums so hard in me because he hasn’t fucked his wife in years. But when my husband comes home all I want is him. They’re just fantasies. I also have a huge dildo that sticks on the wall and when I use it I hope that my neighbor sees me. I can’t help it.

That is exactly the kind of things I want her to tell me about! I want to share her fantasies and be able to enjoy them together.

The things I think about while jilling are either plain vanilla or wild hopefully will never happen to me kind of things. I have remembered past things my husband does and try to mimic it with my fingers or vibes and I have put my suction cup black dildo on the wall and imagined I was bound doggie style by a guy who broke into the house. The important thing to remember here is we all have different ways of getting off but if she does not want to tell you about it do not worry to much. Especially if your sex life is great because you might ruin a good thing.