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Smitten with a younger girl
So I m an older single guy (41) who recently met a 21 y/o girl at a business function. We connected immediately and I offered to take her out for a drink after the event. We ended up sleeping together that night. This was a week ago. Since then there have been a few texts back and forth but I have been out of town so it hasn't been much.
I haven t been in the dating scene for a while so I m not sure how to approach her that I would like to get together more without scaring her off or seeming too desperate. What is the best way to go about doing this to get the best odds of seeing her again now that I'm back in town?
Get her pregnant
Get a few million in the bank, a big house, car etc. If you don't have them then count your good luck with the one session you've had and move on. Much better to get someone of your own age because you'll get on better, both in and out of bed.
I'm jealous. I moved a hot 21 y.o. Russian girl in with me when i was 41 in 2012 as a favor to a friend whom she was buddies with. When she was all dolled up (cute outfit, makeup, etc.) she resembled sasha grey. I couldn't believe that such a smoking hot piece of ass had just been dropped into my life, and i'm secure enough to say that i was dying to fuck her. I did all the usual stuff. Peeped on her a couple!l of times while she was changing (that paid off one night when i saw her in a pair of small black old navy hipsters. Wow.) Went through her panties. Whacked off a bunch while looking at her middle school i.d. card's photo. She was a walking, talking mid-life crisis. I knew i wouldn't be able to live with myself if i didn't atleast try to get between her knees. I made a couple of moves on her, including putting my hand on her upper thigh one night and kissing her on the lips 4 times as i laid in bed while she sat next to me and we chatted. But i just couldn't seal the deal. She had a myriad of problems as it turned out with drugs and booze (a russian drinking; go figure), multiple family issues, a wildly expensive phone habit and an insane set of friends, and i ended up having her leave after 6 months. While she lived here, she gave me a ton of her old clothes to take to one of those used clothing stores to get a few bucks for. One of the items she gave me was a little black and white school girl skirt that i still have, stashed under my bed. Wherever you are joy, good luck. And nice ass.
Some years ago one of my work friends got a Ukrainian girl. She was not too young but was 15 years younger than him. She was charming and beautiful but spoke no English when I first met her visiting. Around two years later she had passed the English exam (this is necessary to move to the UK) . They got married, she now has citizenship but now are divorced. I feel sorry for him, he's a good person but I think that we could see it coming. I have another friend who married a Thai girl, also beautiful and a bit younger than him and they are still together with a family.
Wake up man, she is 21 and you are 41 it was just sex, she was having a weak moment, hence how you got in her knickers.
Move on