Don't want him to be upset

My wife is also a cum dumpster. She feels degraded and humiliated by it, but I am fine with it

It isnt your decission to make. It is obvious that you are submissive and love being dominated by your husband. When you agreed to to have him dominate you it doesnt end just because you want it to ,you are your husbands property now and you belong to him even if you get a divorce. Think about how humiliating it would be to be in bed with your new husband and your ex comes over and wants to fuck you . If he hasnt told you that you are no longer his property you would have to let him fuck you and he will fuck your brains out right in front of your husband. Dont say anything about that to him because it will make him mad and he will punish you for thinking you have a say so on the matter. I bet he will show you how powerless you are and he is going to make sure that there is no doubt in your mind that your husband owns you . My husband decided to have it tatooed on my chest that I am a sex slave and I belong to my husband. I didnt lime the things Master was doing to me ans making me do and I thought I would tell him how I felt about it and would make him stop.He made me feel lime a whore and when I told him no more he made me dress ten times sluttier and not just when we went out to play,,I was dressed like a whore 24/7 and after being treated like a whore full time like that you will feel like you really are one.

Get the respect back and dump him

Stuck now Darling, best thing is to try and ensure they wear condoms and enjoy it but be realistic you will get all types of jack just ensure he roots you now and again so he does not get off scot free OK ?

It didn't go well with my conversation with him last night. I give up

I don't know your history but I am guessing there was some initial conversation about swinging where he said it would turn him on to watch and you eventually said you would do it. There must have been some kind of discussion about it then, am I right?
Perhaps you could reference back to that conversation. Tell him that although you got a thrill out of the attention, and out of knowing that it turned him on to do this, that you are feeling differently about it now.
At the very least, any encounter you have with others should be something you are aware of beforehand and have agreed to engaging in.

Were you both swingers when you married each other? Well, it doesn't matter either way. Your needs have changed and he should want to be considerate of those needs.
Express your desire to satisfy him however you can, but tell him you don't feel good about this anymore. Talk to him about what it is about sharing you that turns him on. See if there are other arrangements which can satifsy him which don't entail you swinging with strangers.
Tell him you love him and hope he still loves you. Stay positive, avoid being defensive, and stress that you want to make it work for both of you.

Best of luck on this.

Sweetheart, do you like the sex you are getting from the guys and if you don't think I am rude do you accept them orally, anally, vaginal and hand or do you have limit's

I do enjoy it and enjoy the attention . I have done it all . I guess there really isn't much in the way of limits.

That's nice sweetheart, I really hope you keep enjoying your sex and don't get the jack you sound like a very nice lady but your hubby is a bit stuffed up I think.

Do what hubby says or he might kick you out of the house, change the locks, cut up the credit cards, take your name off the checking account and kill your cell phone. Then what? You better plan this out.

You probably are all up infected with various STDs now. With that much cum it’s bound to happen

Tell him, no, I'm done being used. Bad situation to put you in against your will. He's basically letting you get raped by whoever he chooses. I was at my non-usual sports bar a few months ago, and a guy and his hot gf sat next to me. We started chatting and watching a game on tv, and, in the men's room, he hit me up with "Want a shot at her? Give me $75 and I'll have her outside in ten minutes". I asked if he was a pimp and she a hooker, and he said no. "Nah, just my girlfriend. I like doing this to her when we go out".

I declined, and we went back to the bar. She had to know what he was up to, since every time I looked at her, she gave me a look that spoke of "I know he just offered me to you". Was a bit uncomfortable after that. I finished up and left, thinking..What the hell was that?

Hey the person who suggested Donkey's is a smart cookie, I am certain you would be able to get plenty of paying customers start off by having some fuck you (they could pay a premium and get front row seating) to loosen you up then bring on the Donkey, your husband would clearly be wanking hard by then it would be so sexy watching such a performance.
Do you think your up to it Honey ?

Darling I would really start wondering where he is stashing or wasting all the funds you are turning over for him.
You better start getting your share don't take any of this "I am not charging them " crap, he certainly is or he is a ratbag either way he is showing no concern or respect for you

There is obviously no hope for you sweetheart you must be a one in a million real dill, keep doing everything your stupid husband wants till he gets sick of you and pisses you off
I really like the bit about "ha says he is not charging" how quaint

If you want to keep this up start demanding half the money you earn, save as much as you can because sooner or later this situation is going to turn to shit, don't worry about him getting upset your the one doing all the work, I really hope you don't get the jack Baby you sound like a nice lady and clearly deserve better than this pimp

You have to just divorce him. My ex-husband once pressured me into swinging with his corporate friends, and I did it for a while, but it got old quickly. Don't let anyone treat you like a sex object.