First timers welcomed
My husband asked why my "number" was so high, and I had to tell him the truth. He didn't like it at all and I'm not sure what to think. My number is 26 but of those are my husband, 4 boyfriends, 2 FWB, and 19 one timers. He asked why so many one timers. In high school it got around that I was a slut even though I wasn't. I had only had sex with two guys by 11th grade. Word got around. One of my best friends was a guy who had never had sex and was a senior and wanted to before graduating. I said I'll do it with you just so you could get that out of the way. We did it and Word got around about that. Other friends asked if we could do it and I ended up being a lot of guy's first. Most would cum really quickly and others wouldn't be able to get hard and we'd try again another day. I found with the guys who couldn't get hard I could ease their nerves by being face down butt up and they'd touch me and finger me without me seeing them then they'd get hard and have sex with me. Some guys chickened out completely and ask for a BJ or ask to just explore my body and they'd get men naked and feel me and finger me and get comfortable with me then they'd want a hand job ot blow or even we're ready to have sex. Some wouldn't even last a minute before cumming and others wanted to try everything they'd ever seen in porn. A couple of guys wanted vaginal, anal, and oral and I'd be willing to do it all. I'd show them how to kiss and how to feel a girl's body and what I liked and how to do it. I'd usually be th or first kiss, their first pair of boobs touched, their first BJ, first sex ever. It was sort of fun having sex with a lot of guys over the last year of high school. Every guy is so different, the way they kiss the way they feel the way their penises look and taste and the way they feel inside me. I liked it.
I explained to my husband that the number is high because of the one timers that I experimented with in HS. He didn't like it at all and was visibly unsettled. I don't see it as a bad thing, it was experimenting and learning about sex to me. After high school in college I had four sex partners total before I met my husband. I probably should have just told him that number instead.