Found out too much

Enjoy her

Oh , those sloppy seconds with scent of male asshole .

When a woman says “I don’t do that” add the words “with you”.

My wife is from a small town and when we got married we moved there to be closer to her family. She told me before we got married she was a bit promiscuous when she was younger and partied a lot with her old school crowd.
She also told me one guy was well endowed and another serious boyfriend had given her facials.
So now we're living in her old running grounds and her old friends stop over every so often to chat, (both guys and gals, all very nice people)
Now I'm starting to wonder which one of these guys is the, "big" one, who jerked off on my wife's face, which one f&cked my wife in the ass, etc.,
My wife is a very pretty lady and I love her very much, so I guess I'll just accept her past, (and her old friends) and count myself lucky to be with her.

She sounds like a keeper!

I'd rethink the whole marriage thing. It's only been a few weeks, so maybe you can get out of it. Just about every one of her friends have probably fucked her, but none of them thought she was marriage material. You got saddled with that burden. She was just a hot piece to everyone else.

None of the people who fucked her ever warned you that she was a slut, and that is serious. I'd feel betrayed. They might be her friends, but they aren't yours. You just brought a bunch of people into your life whom you cannot trust--ever. Just wait until the videos and pictures start to surface--you are going to learn things about your wife's past that will be shocking. I'm so sorry, man. This is very tough.

What the actual fuck? Just because his wife used to be promiscuous doesn't make her a "burden", or bad in any way. It means that she's had a great time, is confident in her body and her sexuality, and probably has some great stories and great tricks to bring to the bedroom.

Why the hell would OP need to be "warned" by his wife's former partners? Why would it be their business to tell him anything, rather than letting his wife decide what/when/how to share it.

You're an asshole.

And who did you hear this from? Her close friends, or some jealous bitches? Guys who she never fucked, or the town man whores?

Many people in her town she admitted to me everything

Same thing happened when I met my wife's friends from home but I think she was an even bigger slut than your wife. They had a song they sung when drunk about her getting a train run on her. Asked her where her "makeup" was because it turns out she used to walk around parties with cum on her face. Then they played "who fucked her" and everyone at the party raised their hands

Your wife sounds awesome! You should be proud that she chose to spend her life with you, and turned on that you were in a room with a bunch of people who'd all enjoyed her.

WHAT THE HELL? Just talk to her about it, without judgement. Maybe her first boyfriend or sexual partner got her to do that and she enjoyed it, and found out how much guys like having it done. I rim guys myself, it is a huge turn on to see how horny nuts it makes them.

Did you guys talk before you got married or did you think it not necessary?
So what if she has a thousand different men. Makes not a damn bit of difference. So what if she likes a lot of sex escapades including rim jobs. Sounds like a fun wife to me.

Embrace your slutty wife!! What's the big fucking deal? Also how the fuck did this come up? "Hey bud, did you know your wife used to be a rim job whore around theses here parts?"

I did not know , she acts so innocent. She is a little princess most of the time.

She's a little princess, with a very naughty side. If she taps into it with you and embraces it, you'll have a mindblowing life with her. If she reverts to feeling guilty and ashamed of her desires, she'll probably retreat into emotional walls, and self-define sex as a problem from her past that she needs to resolve to save her future, by staying as good as possible... much like my soon to be ex wife.

I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing. Rim jobs are a little more intimate than a handshake or simple bj. This probably means that your wife is a major, major slut and kept that fact hidden from you before you married her. This is not good.

My guess is that she is hiding much more from you. I'd hire a private investigator to follow her around as well as look into her past a little more deeply. She's not right and you deserve better.

Well that's how I was feeling but I don't have the kind of money to pay someone to follow her around all day

I know that this is an old post, but as a warning to anyone else, if you pull insecure bullshit like this on your spouse and start distrusting her or judging her, you can guarantee that she won't share anything more with you, you'll drive a wall between you, and if you keep it up you'll lose her.

Don't be that guy.

I want to rim my mother in law.

Not sure what the big deal is, I fucked a whole bunch of women when I was in college and in my hometown, if my wife ever felt bad cause I fucked a lot before we even met, then she should've married a priest. Look at the bright side, your wife is probably great in bed, there are some of us whose spouses are a little on the boring side, grass is always greener...

A wife that runs you??? That's hot!!

How do you figure she's running me ?

Rimming not running, if she did it with other guys you deserve it too.