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I am married 29 yr old with a 5 yr old son my marriage has been rocky since I found out he cheated on me. Recently I became friendly with a tomboy type young woman who works at the local home store,she has been flirting with me for awhile a week ago she helped to the car with some plants and when they were loaded she took me in her arms and kissed me like I never been kissed before as I melted I found myself sucking her tongue. She handed me her number and said call me anytime I know you want to and she was gone. I realized my panties were wet. I have never had a lesbian experience but I can`t stop thing about her.
Just be careful. Your husband has already hurt you once by cheating on you. Don't let the affection of this other woman cloud your thoughts.
It seems like the idea turns you on. Would you just receive, or would you lick her as well?
Yhink about it. If it makes you hot then call her
The thing is that most men wouldn't consider it cheating because selfishly it would give them an excuse to join/fulfill there fantasy. For you, it would be good just to relieve the tension. Meet up with her...see where it goes. You can use the experience to build new bridges in your marriage or consider a completely different path. My wife of 23 years now did the same thing. I was a young man who didnt quite understand what that meant. She let a girl in her office eat her out at work/after work and realized it was fun but that she still preferred hetero sex. She then shared that she was thinking about it (not telling me the truth until years later). She used if as a bridge to recapture the fire we once had and still have to this day.
It's your call, but cheating with a woman is still cheating (remember lesbian relationships are just as valid as any). If you're just curious, maybe tell your husband and remind him this is about you, not him. Explain you just want to be honest and ask if you can have space to explore your feelings--maybe you'll find out you're only physically attracted to women, or that your husband no longer does it for you and you want out.
I’m 51, married and in a situation not so different from yours. My boss is a strong, confident, professional, fit 58 year woman who has made it more than clear we could have something. I think it’s something I really want.
Call her. I'm a guy and your story gets me so hot. I think I would definitely be bisexual if I were a girl. Your bodies are so hot, and you know just what feels good to each other. Something about the taboo aspect is a big turn on also. It got you wet. I think you want to.
What have you got to lose. Just call her and give it a go