Which way is it? Gay or Str8?

There are just too many nuances in sexual activity to give anything a solid definition or title. People spend too much time deciding they are exactly one thing like straight or gay. Life also matures with new situations, desires and needs. Maybe the only title we need is"sexual."

When I was younger I knew I wanted to feel some dick up my ass. I was afraid only because I thought what if the guy I let fuck me wants to do it again and again. What do I do?? I only wanted to try it once just to see how it felt. Well, it so happened that one night I met a shapely Tgirl walking down the street. I gave her a ride and after we arrived and parked she invited me up to her place. Just being with a tgirl really turned me on, but I didn't know it at the time. Once we got inside she made a move on me and we ended up in bed. She asked me if she could fuck me, and I said yes. She pulled out that nine inch dick and went to town. After it was over she gave me her number but I almost threw it away because I knew I would never call her. My plan was to try it only once. Well, after a few days I started to get really horny and gave her a call. She said for me to come over right away because she wanted to do it again. Since I was already horny I went and she fucked me again. A few days went by and the same thing happened again. After awhile she asked me if she could be my woman. I wanted to say yes so bad but I wanted our relationship to stay hidden. So we just kept it like it was. 20 years later we are still fucking each other. She is the best woman I have ever had.

I get hard when another guy or tgirl has their dick up my ass. I've even cum a few times when I got fucked really really good. I really don't care if people think I'm gay or what. All I know is that I have some really great memories of being fucked.

I enjoy sucking cock and enjoy taking one up my ass. I enjoy cocks! That being said I love pussy! Love looking at it, touching it, tasting it. I love women! But I enjoy pleasing a hard cock. I am bi. Not gay. But name calling doesn't affect my in any way so the hell with " titles " like straight, bi, or gay. I don't force my desires on anyone and only act on my desires when interest has been shown to me.

I agree and have the same reality. But I’ll say there is nothing hotter to me than being on my back, legs spread high and wide, he kissed me passionately and whispers “you’re gay” in my ear while he makes me his.

I like your answer. Thanks. Wish I could suck your cock.

If you like cock and not attracted to guys or interested in taking it in the ass, you're straight. Doesn't matter if you're soft or hard while sucking. You just have a thing for dicks, that's all. And getting hard just means sucking turns you on. I've always liked dick because I looked at mags growing up and thought hairy pussies and seeing em with cum coming out was nasty as fuck. If I seen a bunch of pretty pink pussies and knew that cum coming out of pussy was because the guy shot his load in her instead of it being naturally her, then I would like pussy more. Plus, I like having something in my mouth.

Thanks for the nice response. I am not attracted to guys... and love the female body. On the other hand -- I love cock, too, especially having a nice cock cum in my mouth. And I am getting very curious about taking a hard cock in my ass. I sort of worry about the initial pan, tho. And I guess the ultimate would be having a cock in my ass and one in my mouth at the same time. Makes me very hot even thinking about it -- which I do often -- and I do not think that is Gay. Do you?

On second thought, as long as you're not into guys, go ahead and satisfy all your needs. Only way I wanna get fucked in the ass, is if it's by tgirl Sadie Hawkins. She has the hottest and hardest cock ever! I want her to shove it in me and pound me as long and as hard as she wants. I wish I could suck some cock right now.

You just are bi-sexual. Do not over think it and enjoy life.

You are what you are, whether or not your dick gets hard when you suck cock. I don't see how it has anything to do with your identity.

You're a cocksucker, which makes you at LEAST bisexual. You're only "gay" if you only want guys and are unattracted to women. Gay means "same sex only.
Bi means "both sexes". Some people might judge you for that, but I won't be one of them.

Sucking dicks = GAY

Yep your certainly gay, get used to it

Well I got hard the one time I sucked a cock, I never heard that it means you're gay. That can't be right

If you suck a cock, you are gay. If you get hard doing it, you're really gay. I'm straight and I would never suck a cock

I used to feel the same way until I sucked my first cock. Since then all I think about and want to do is ... suck cock. I don't want my cock sucked-- but I sure do want to suck yours. And have you cum in my mouth. That's not gay is it, since I'm married.

You're fuckin GAY! Divorce your wife so she can find a real man & be happy.

A smoldering not flaming fag. But that's ok