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Why won't he *** inside me
We are both in are late forties and have a healthy sex appetite, last year we spoke about him having the snip, I can't take the birth control pill because of health reasons and we are definitely not wanting any more children so we have to be very careful when having sex.
We both agreed the snip was the right decision, it took about 8 months form seeing the doctor to having the procedure done.
In that time we both day dreamed about not having to worry when having sex, it even heightened are sex knowing this.
It's now one year on and everything is how it should be, tests and checkups all good.
He has only finished inside me once, believe me I'm encouraging him to continue and finish inside me but he won't, whenever he is close he pulls out.
This is now upsetting me and he always promises next time, I've spoken to him about it and he tells me he can't help himself but want to finish over my pubic hair as he loves it so much.
Why will he not finish inside me?
Yeah, I think it's just "conditioning", too. I knew a girl who was very much the opposite. While she was a bit hung up, for whatever reason, and wouldn't give or receive oral, and would ONLY do it in the missionary position, she always requested me to pull it out and finish on her belly, or, in her pubes.
Until a few years ago, I was a very copious cummer. Okay, it wasn't "buckets" or even "pints" but it was always a tablespoon or more. Doesn't sound like much ? Measure your's next time ! Anyway, she was, literally the girl next door, and she had this b/f who fooled around on her, so, she did the same to him. I hit her up for some pussy on a Friday evening, and she begged off because of " Auntie Flo' ". I tried to get her to jerk me off, but, she would only stroke it, and bring me close, but, admonish me with, "Save it for next Friday ! " She also instructed me, "Don't get anymore pussy, or jack off, till you see me again !" I wasn't getting very much pussy, and would usually jack off two or three times a night. So, I saved it until the next Friday when she and I had a date. After dinner, I took her to a really sleazy no-tell motel. You know the kind of place, the bullfighter portrait on the wall, squeaky bed, filthy shag carpet, faulty a/c and plumbing. We got to fucking pretty quick, after I fingered her sopping wet slit. Finally, I mounted her in the missionary position and hit it, maybe, a dozen strokes before I exploded. I pulled out, apologizing, and my cum shot out in huge gouts. Her belly, tiny tits, neck and chin took the blast. It was a porn movie cum shot.
"Oh my God ! " she gasped. "I've never seen so much of that stuff in my whole life !" I rubbed my cockhead into her brown patch of pubes, then, went and got her a towel. A bath towel ! I came back and she's playing with the splatters of spunk. A bit later I gave her a good ride, much longer, and came my usual tablespoon full, this time in her bush.
He might just be "conditioned" to pull out. If he's been doing it for years, it's natural for him. My husband and I have used the withdrawal method for years, so he always pulls out. It's like an instinctive thing for him. There's nothing wrong with him pulling out. Heck, just tell him to put it back in.
Some guys have a kink like this, i had guys want to cum on my boobs/face and some in stranger places, one in my hair (very messy and never again) others have been on my back/stomach and others even kinkyer like on my feet/boots/heels. its ether a bit kink for him or he never really had the snip?
soph x
Darling you just have to insist if he will not do it and obviously there is no reason why not start denying him sex explain that you adamantly want him to cum deep inside you and you hate him pulling out, probably best to explain that you will compromise and let him pull out initially every second fuck then start increasing the number.
Even though I have not often had a guy pull out I know how disappointing it can be so be firm darling, let us know how you go xxx
I do not enjoy penetration and even though I have had three children by my husband all boys I have now told him I do not want his cock in me. I told him to masturbate himself. I told him that I prefer to masturbate myself and that I can get multiple orgasms. He was very disappointed and asked me if he could just put the head of his penis inside my vulva. I have said definitely no. But I then have said that I will masturbate him. I have now started masturbating him 3 or 4 times a week when we go to bed. I let him stroke my breasts and then I sit up next to him take his pants off because after stoking and sucking my breasts his cock is usually quite hard. I hold the base of his cock with my left hand and work his cock up and down with my right hand. He cums quite quickly which I am glad and I use his cum to speak over my hands. I call it my special hand cream. I actually enjoy masturbating him this way and get quite wet between my legs. So much so although I have masturbated whilst he was at work I go into our ensuit and masturbate myself after having washed my hands. I cum quite quickly then may be in just a couple of minutes.
That is funny my wife masturbated me the same way even though we still fuck usually doggy style. She will quite often afterwards masturbate me that way and I usually give her a second load of cum.