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Men, tell me how to please my fella
So guys, I want t give my boyfriend the time of his life and I want some tips on what you guys like so I can try.
For years I went out with a guy that just liked plain old missionary, and that's pretty much all we did. Now I have a boyfriend that I've been with for over 2 years, and he is a lot more adventurous than my ex.
Trouble is, I'm quite shy... I want to give him the time of his life but I feel awkward instigating things and tend to wait until he tries it on. The sex at first was amazing, but now it's getting a bit "samey". Always me giving him a BJ and him fingering me (not a lot either) and I either finish him with a blowjob or we do reverse cowgirl.
The other week he used a dildo on me for the first time, and it was something fun and new... I'm not sure how much he enjoyed it, but I'd like to try something else with him. He has mentioned he likes being blindfolded, but I feel top embarrassed to put one on him, and then I wouldnt really know what to do once it was on him!!
I also find he's very hard to turn on... He says just kissing turns him on but I feel like I can never get him REALLY fucking horny. I want him to want it as much as I do!! Any tips on what I can do to give him a really good time and get myself some good fucking myself at the same time?
Take him on a secluded picnic or walk in the woods. When you are at a " safe" place start rubbing his cock through his pants.
When he gets hard, undo his pants, pull out his cock and give him a bj , and let him cum in your mouth.
If you have never swallowed his cum, open your mouth, show him his cum then swallow it
Why don't you write a list of some of the things that YOU like and get him to write some of the things that he likes or might like. Let him read your list and you read his.....communication is important in any relationship.
Another thing you can do, is write a list of the things that you don't like and he do the same. That way, neither of you will feel ashamed if something weird is there or face rejectiontion
Are you up for watching porn together? that itself can be new and exciting,
let him choose the clip/film and see what he likes and copy it, eg if he picks one with lingerie get an idea what he likes and buy something similar,
copy the position and acts that they do,
other than that browse sex toy shops and make a deal, he picks on and you pick one,
Make it a day. Taking him out to dinner and drinks then you could surprise him by taking him to a strip club so he could watch you get a lap dance from one of the girls but let him pick the girl for you. Also ware a dress and no panties we love that. That would really get him super horny. Before the night is over got to a sex shop and pick out a toy for him to use on you a butt plug would do the trick. It would be a day he would surely remember and thank you too
Wouldn't work... He doesn't like his nipple being touched and he definately wouldn't like a finger up the bum (and I wouldn't want to do that to him either!)
He does not like them being touched because he liked how it feels and is afraid he is a sissy... next time don't ask.... go do it. Suckle his nipples
Twist and suck on his nipples while you finger his ass