Attracted to my husband's bff
I recently got engaged and I have been in this relationship for almost 4 years. In our first year of relationship, me and my husband used to have sex every day for at least 2 times every time and if felt good. However, as years have passed, our sex life began to be boring, and we got lucky if we had sex once a month. We disscused about having somebody else to fuck with, to spice up our sex life a bit.. and we did! Now the problem is, the guy that we have found was around 43yo at that time, basically, he could be my dad for that matter. It felt good but strange for the first time, btw, I even swallowed his cum even tho, I did not had an orgasm, which was dissapointing. We had sex with that guy one more time but it was more dissapointing than before, after all, he is old and tired.. we have found a couple after quite some time and we had our fist foursome. After a lot of alcohol we decided to give it a try and fuck. She was my first pussy I licked and guess what.. I liked it! Before that I wasn't into girls at all, and to be honest, I hooked up with a girl just to make my husbdand's dream come true. I didn't liked the idea at first but when i was between her legs, seeing how much she likes the way i lick her pussy.. damn. I don't know what I am exactly, I don't consider myself bisexual 100%. However, this was my last experience as we had gained some weight and I don't want to fuck with strangers if I don't like how I look. Anyway, since we became more open minded, my husbdand told me once that his best friend confessed that he would love to have a threesome with me and my husband and since then, I always try to show myself a little more on "accident" to him.. like a sexy outfit, position or even showing him my boobs a little "without being aware of this", cause he has no idea that I know about his fantasy so I try to act like I don't know. The true is, I'd love to have a threesome with him but my husband does not agree, he says that he does not want to ruin his life time friendship with him and so on. But damn,
Having a threesome with a friend is a lot more likely to lead to disaster than having a threesome with someone you know casually. Just be sure that you are willing to risk your friendship, or even your relationship.
Here is my take on this. I think your husband and his buddy were sharing sex stories. Probably your husband bragged a little about his open minded wife, and the hot threesomes/foursomes you guys had. Anyway, his friend must have felt confident or bold enough to suggest him possibly joining you guys. Your husband floated it by you to see if you would go for it. I bet his friend even knows he did this. I say go for it!!