Fucking with my ex

I’d been with my ex since I was 15 he was 21 and took my virginity. We were married when I was 18 and were together for 10 years. He had a honest to god 13 inch cock and it took over a year before I got it all. He would enter me and cum within 2-3 minutes roll over and go to sleep. The longest he ever had me was7 minutes I begged him to go to Drs but he wouldn’t and eventually I left him totally unsatisfied. I returned to work and at 32 met a 18yo who fell head over heels with me, but by now I was used to having as many cocks as I wanted. I told him this on our first date and he was really ok with it, as long as I told him it was fine. We tell each other everything no secrets. We’ve now been married 48 years. I was eighty last week and my special present from him was to take me dogging. He adores letting him watch. I really do look after myself. I do 15-20 K on an exercise bike everyday. About ten years ago at a party he couldn’t attend for health reasons and to far to drive home I’d booked into an airb&b. And it just happened that my ex was in the next one to me. At the party he told me that he’d finally been to his Drs and got a referral with a Dr at his local and said he could now fuck better than most of his friends. One thing lead to another and we ended up in bed. It was the best sex I’d ever had, I certainly made up for all the years where he only managed 2-3 min. We fucked all night the next morning and we stopped in a lay-by before we when our own way. Very naughty of me but when I got home I told my husband I’d spent the night with someone I’d meet at the party and that we’d stopped in a lay-by an hour earlier fantastic he said did you bring me anything he said. Yes lie down and I squatted over his face and let him have my cream pie.

He loved it. I never told him who it was, I thought I’d would be better that way. It’s the only time I’ve ever lied to him. Over the last 10 months I’ve met ex once a month for pure unadulterated sex. Ex had begged me to leave my husband but it will never happen in a thousand years. He still adores me and I’m the only woman he’s been with since we became lovers, even though he’s had many offer he says there only one woman for me.

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That should have said 10 years not months

Hope hubby is cheating too and leaves your butt.

It is wrong. Your husband and his wife deserve more. Your kids aren't as stupid as you think and they can read your expressions and they can wake up and hear things and just not tell like another poster did on this site. It is just wrong. How can you look at your husband. Divorce him and let him find someone who can be faithful. Life is too short to spend it with a cheater.

After being divorced for ten years and remarried for three I ended up having sex with my ex husband after we both attended a mutual friend's wedding. My new husband couldn't go so I went alone. My ex was there with his new wife . She had way to much to drink , he asked me to help get her to their room.She was passed out on the bed in minutes . I was getting ready to leave when he gave me a friendly kiss good bye , which quickly turned into a very heated make out session. It wasn't long before my dress was on the floor and I was on my knees sucking him and getting him hard. I was bent over the bed with him fucking me from behind while his wife lay sleeping right next to us. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life, probably because of the excitement of fucking him with her right there. I feel guilty about cheating with him but still see him from time to time just for sex. He just knows how to get me off!

Glad you aren't my wife; that's low.

You must not feel too guilty as you are wasting your present husband's short life by making him stay married to a cheater. He doesn't deserve that and neither does the other man's wife. Just no excuse. Get a divorce and do things the right way.

I know what you mean. I've been seeing my ex now and again for years. He just gets me off in a way that my husband, as much as I love him, cannot.

Only my mother knows about it, and she doesn't approve, although she doesn't bring it up. The only thing she said was, "What if the shoe was on the other foot and it was Tom (my husband) who was seeing his ex?" Well, that's a good point. I wouldn't be happy about it. However, if it really was just about sex I'd try to cut him slack. I understand loving somebody and being committed yet needing variety. That might be more of a guy thing, but plenty of women do it too, myself included. I think a lot of relationships are needlessly destroyed because monogamy is overvalued. Of course, anybody in an open relationship has to guard her (or his) heart. It's not for everyone, obviously.

Living a lie and you say you love him. Gosh you are really messed up in the head. What you have is nothing to do with love. Betrayal is more like it.

Well, your husband deserves to choose for himself as you said it isn't for everyone. You don't love him or you would be faithful and truthful. Tell him and let him choose what he wants. He has a short life and he should choose how he spends it and who he spends it with. You are so selfish and such a loser.

Sometimes it's tough to completely get an ex out of your system. I've been seeing my ex several times a year, whenever I have to go to his city (I travel frequently for my job). I used to swear that every time was the last time, but it never was, so I've made myself comfortable with it. There's a sensual chemistry between us that isn't there with my husband, although in every other area, my husband is perfect.

Boy, you're living a lie. Feel sorry for your hubby.

Well, you aren't perfect for him and he deserves to know the truth. Your comfortable with it because the more you cheat the less you feel guilty. One day he will know and he will hate that you wasted his only life by not giving him the chance to answer if he wanted to be chained to a cheater. How horrible; he doesn't deserve that. You must really hate him to betray him.

Sounds healthy to me.