A friend fucked my wife after the Superbowl

My wife has always been extremely attractive and sexy. Many many men told me over the years they always wanted to fuck my wife. I would laugh a little because when I met my wife I wasn’t looking for a relationship. She pursued me. My one friend always demeaned her looks saying she was too chubby but in reality she had really nice breasts and a beautiful face with more of a nice figure. Not tiny but fresh looking. My wife and I were talking a couple weeks ago and she did tell me back in the day my good friend was sending those signals he wanted in her pants. She assured me nothing happened and knowing how I was aware of my buddies behavior I trusted that nothing happened. My wife has always shown me massive amounts of love and would satisfy me sexually any time I wanted some. I think we’re way past worrying about infidelity. That would be silly now knowing how many years we’ve been together never having trust or respect issues. I actually chuckle when my wife and I are together because I know every man looking at her is hoping one day he gets a chance to get in her pants. She knows they’re looking she just doesn’t give them the do me look. It’s actually a turn on but I’m not sure I want to know someone else has had sex with her.

I’m new to this site and was looking through old posts and found this and had to read and reread it. I’m curious how it worked out but I’m guessing this marriage is looong over!
First this dude should have stopped it when the grinding went overboard and if it was me when the door closed the music would have gone off and I’d say ok jokes over come out if not the door would come down.
Since he did nothing she may have thought he didn’t care. She may have even wanted her husband to help her but nothing but the aftermath may tell otherwise. I also think if the dude had the balls to do this he may have already fucked her behind the husbands back and was just now marking his territory.
At the least I would have had to ask WTF was THAT before she went to bed.
Again I’m curious if the original poster is around.

If you did that with a woman, would she be filing for divorce?

If my friend tried that to me? I would break that door and beat him up until he faints. I would then call the police and divorce the slut after I treat her like one. You pathetic weakling.

I to am a flirt and my husband and I had a party for my birth day 22nd and he invited several of his friends telling me he invited a lot more but actually he didn't
The drinks were flowing freely and I began dancing with who ever asked me and getting felt up a lot and yes getting turned on as well.
I went to get another drink and my husband came up to me and told me this was his present to me and told me to have fun it's your fantasy coming true.

He said he was going to go for a drive and said he'll be back when he see's no cars in the driveway. Gads three days later the last had left me and I was in the shower when hubby came home.
He didn't want to know the ins and outs but asked if I had fun which of course I said yes beyond words fun and he kissed me and said good. Any more fantasies ????

Damn you fucked his friends for three days? Your my dream gal. How many were there total?

I'd make sure everyone you know and who knows her found out. I would be horrible enough to throw a party and invite everyone and announce to the room that you want a divorce and what she did; how she flirts with men; and how she grinded those men. I'm sure they have wives and girlfriends who would love to know about this. I would pay them all back at the same time. Revenge could even the score and make you feel better while making them squirm.

Get a divorce; you deserve better than someone who flirts with your friends and screws with them in front and behind your back; that is so disrespectful. She doesn't love you; a woman who really loves a man wouldn't flirt with his friends or anyone else and she would've never danced like that drunk or not. I've seen lots of drunk people and they always knew who they were going home with.

I can't believe you keep saying something about not wanting to make a scene; the man was fucking your wife. If there was ever a time to make a scene it was that one. I would've been up and banging the shit out of that door and when it opened both of them would've bit hit where it hurts the most and neither would've been thinking of sex again.

First time something like that had happened? Wake up, she is already fucking your friend or friends. You weren't too drunk to control yourself and neither was your wife and those losers you let into your marriage. Simply, the drinking lowered their inhabitions and they did what they had already been doing behind your back and now they are just hoping you will think it was just a mistake and not realize that they are doing this all the time. Get rid of those men; they aren't your friends. Friends never touch or flirt with your wife or girlfriend, ever ever ever. I would talk to your wife and tell her you know what happened and if she had done it before and if you want to keep her, tell her the fucking and flirting stops now or you will tell both of your parents and anyone else who will listen and get a divorce. Make her give you an apology and I would weed out her sexy clothes and give them away without her knowing. Just put them in a bag and either give them away or put them in the trash. Time to become the man of your house.

Keep on avoiding the subject and she will feel entitled to go at it again. She isn't going to forget getting it good. You should make her feel ashamed and ask why she didn't apologize and why she flirts while she is married. Flirting is a sexual thing people do to get the other person interested in sex with them. Can't believe you watched the foreplay and didn't care enough to put an end to it. You can bet it has probably happened before and if you don't speak up it will happen again.

It isn't wrong to cause a scene when something like this happens. You should've kicked on the door; really you should've shut the music down and sent everyone home; it was your house. You let it go and they decided you didn't care and did what they wanted to. You have to quit being nice and make sure none of them disrespects you again. Your family is sometimes your only real friends; I'd cut all that other people, booze, and allowing her to flirt out. Just start talking to her and tell her she will either discuss it with you privately or in a courtroom with a judge.

Did anyone notice that she didn't even come out saying she was forced; saying she was sorry; or saying anything in her defence? Flirting is something you do when you are sexually interested in someone. They worked up to this night; then you watched the foreplay on the dancefloor; then it went XXX. With the flirting, how did you not see this coming. You say nothing like this happened in the 5 yrs., but the flirting says otherwise. Not sure what kind of friends you have, but real friends don't hit on your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend. I would involve her family or threaten to if she doesn't start talking to you about it. If you just try to forget, she will continue this behind your back. She isn't going to forget a guy giving it to her and a possible orgasm. I wouldn't have anything to do with any of those guys; they all disrespected you. We only have family over to our house.

What do you mean you didn't want to make a big deal out of it??? What is a big deal to you? A man fucked your wife right in front of you basically without protection. I'd get rid of all the men that grinded your wife and I would put down the foot about their being no more booze, no more flirting, and no more cheating. You don't allow your wife to flirt; it isn't normal to allow that. You were just asking for something like this to happen when you didn't shut down the flirting before the game in the past. Time to quit being nice. No real man would be nice in this situation. You had better get her to feel bad about it now or she will feel like she got away with it and go on to do it again.

Don't let her get by with not talking to you, as a woman, I can say that she isn't going to forget a man that she obviously liked enough to flirt with going inside her and fucking her good. I don't know what they are getting you use to, but it isn't normal for any of those guys to be touching her in any way. I wouldn't let any of them back in my house and you need to make her talk to you. If she thinks this is just getting forgot, which is what she hopes by not talking to you, then she could keep thinking about this and start affairs. Sounds like your wife and friends have been flirting for a while and that isn't normal either. The booze was a problem; get rid of it. Some can handle a drink or two, but when people start using it as an excuse to commit adultery, then it is time to quit buying it. Your friends weren't drunk; you allowed them probably on more than one occasion to flirt with your wife and finally she pushed one of them too far and allowed him to take her. In the end she didn't say no; she allowed it. If you really want any kind of marriage with her at all, then break with all those men who were at your house and let them know they aren't allowed there anymore and don't hang with them. They are hanging with you to get to your wife. Real friends never touch/grind their friend's wife. I can't say enough how abnormal that is. Talk to her; make her talk about what she is feeling and make sure she knows it was wrong and that she is sorry. Lay down rules for the future where no men are at your home and she is to only dance with you. If you don't make her talk now; you will be seeing this again in the future. Lust has a way of changing people; you saw for yourself that your own wife totally forgot you were even in the room and did it with a guy she obviously wanted enough to flirt with.

Potentially there could be a pregnancy or disease, because who knows who the other guy has been with. And why did you still call him your friend in the story? I wouldn't call him that after what happened. I'd say ex friend or something.

Everyone at that party wasn't as drunk as you say. If they both tried to play it cool afterwards and she was smart enough to try to brush it under the rug by going to sleep then they weren't that drunk. People who are really drunk do care and don't really know what they are doing. Since she remembers then she wasn't that drunk. How could you allow men to be in your house and disrespect your wife by touching her? No matter what, no one had the right to touch her behind and a decent wife wouldn't have let them or liked the attention. Why didn't you put a stop to it then? You could've cut the music off; why weren't you uncomfortable enough to make it stop? I wouldn't let any of those guys back in my house. Why would you want to be friends with any of them; they touched your wife. Being drunk isn't an excuse that you should accept. I wouldn't be friends with any of them anymore and I would make sure the booze wasn't in the house any more. I would tell her that she either talks with you or that you are going to have an intervention with your family, her family, and people in the church if you go or whoever you know that is decent. I think being afraid that others will know what she did would make her talk to you. She had a man in her. That is a big deal and she may cheat again now because once they start they don't stop. GET RID OF ALL THOSE MEN; THEY AREN'T FREINDS; FRIENDS DON'T FEEL YOUR WIFE UP AND WORSE.

You heard the noises; you know what happened and you knew it was going to happen. Why didn't you stop them? Personally, I wouldn't have any more drinking parties and I would talk to her about it. Ask her how she could cheat with you just in the other room knowing about it. I would break off with the guy who cheated with your wife; he isn't a friend. People get drunk, but they often know what they are doing or they wouldn't be able to remember it. Tell her that and ask her why.

How has your sex life been up to now? Has she danced with other guys in front of you before?
Sometimes girls want their guys to be a little jealous so they know they love them. If their guy doesn't object to other guys hitting on them, or to them flirting with guys, they feel like they must not care.

since she was really drunk, and since you didn't say anything when the guy was grinding his boner into her ass, I guess she decided to go with the guy who showed he really wanted her.

I don't know how things are with you and your wife and I can't advise you on what to do obviously. But I would sit her down and talk to her and find out if there is anything left of the relationship. There might be.
Some couples work these things out. It sounds like she needs something more than she has been getting out of the relationship. Do you guys ever talk about swinging?
Since you said nothing when this happened, I wonder if you are a little bit submissive by nature. Some people are. Have you heard of hot wives?
Do you guys ever do anything kinky? Is she at all dominant by nature?
Does she ever tease you or playfully make fun of you?
You can read up on that scene and figure out if it is something that might fit you.
One way or another, something needs to change or things don't look good for the two of you, in my opinion.

Why was she dancing sexy? Did you get it? That was wrong from the outset. You married a bad girl. Sorry, but it's over.

Yeah, it isn't normal for a married woman to dance sexy for other men and allow them to touch her at all. Why did all these men feel they could touch your wife? Have they flirted with her in the past in front of you? You don't allow another guy to flirt, touch, or dance with your wife. You need to get rid of the horn dog so called friends. None of them are your friends. Real friend don't flirt with or touch you spouse.

Fuck, I'm sorry to hear about this. Let me be straight: this is not the first time she has taken on a dick other than yours. That she had the audacity to fuck someone in the bathroom while you were home is so bold that you might as well write up the divorce papers now.

If it were me -- I'd hope at this point that I could become my wife's cuck ... and suck the guy's cock before and after he fucked my wife... and suck and lick his cum out of my wife's pussy. Then -- if she thought I was a good and deserving cuck ... maybe he could fuck my ass --- as my wife watched. Always look on the bright side of things.

You might soon be in a cock cage SISSY

I let my wife fuck other guys for years. She doesn't any more because she thinks she's to old (67). Enjoy it while you can.

You really fucked up. The only way to redeem yourself is to kick his ass in front of your wife and friends, and jerk out a load on his beaten, bruised face.

Seriously? you let your friend take your wife into the bathroom and fuck her while you were right there in the room filled with all your friends? You did nothing to stop this? Be prepared to be getting sloppy seconds from now on because your wife and friends just lost all respect for you. They will all be fucker her now and you will be lucky if she lets you lick her cum fill cunt.

Really hot man, I wish my wife would do it too. In fact on many occasions my friends and I have gotten her drunk and hoped she would , but hasn't .

Some friend and some wife you have there Wimpy! They fucked their brains out right under your nose and right in front of everyone else and you let it happen. Now you're rationalizing it like some magic solution is going to just pop up and make it all better. Your wife is nothing but a skanky whore and your friend is a scum bucket bastard. She needs to go so you need to kick her out. Both she and your now ex-friend should be non persons to you. You should be on the phone working with the best divorce lawyer you can afford. Any self respecting guy would have been on the so called friend and beat the living shit out of him at the first instant of him trying grab your soon to be ex-wife. A slightly lesser respecting guy would have least broken the door down the second it was closed. Until she moves out just quit communicating with her until you can work out a plan of action with counsel. Your marriage and relationship with these people is toast so time to start some cool, clear headed thinking and begin to move on.

Not sure how you let this happen. To have your wife fuck some dude that probably came inside her shows she has no respect for you. I would kicked her out the minute she came out the room

You already know what happened. If you let this slide you will be her cuck and she will fuck any guy she wants. If that's what you want, continue to let your fear rule you. Otherwise tell her what you think and what you demand of her to stay married to you. Frankly I'd already be gone.