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My friend and I are bi, we are both married. My husband doesn't know and would never understand while her husband encourages it. I've never cheated on my husband with another man just my friend Dee. A few nights ago I found myself alone for a few minutes with her husband and he told me Dee has been filming us together for a long time and letting him watch. I was completely embarrassed and could feel my face turning red. I confronted her and she admitted she did. I am just telling everyone this here because maybe I can get some constructive suggestions. I don't feel it's right to sleep with another man but I feel now that I know that he knows they will push for that.
As distasteful and/or frightening as this might sound, you may want to consider telling your husband. The last thing you want is for him to find out through other channels. Doing it that way you do not ever need to worry about it coming back on you out of the blue.
Your husband can then stand by your side when you tell your *friend* that you're willing to believe that she regrets it and will delete every photo and video, that they'll swear to never show or tell anyone else about it. Let them know that you expect them to have enough self-respect to honor your requests but you absolutely refuse to have them use it against you. It was a terrible thing for them to do. How on earth could you ever trust them again.
Then spend lots of time with your husband. Note: If, by some chance, hubby thinks it's hot and would love to see you with another girl, I'd still write off that couple and find someone else even if you end up hiring a professional.
You are cheating on your husband who you know wouldn't understand your having sex with your friend but you don't feel its right to have sex with another man? Cheating is cheating no matter what the sex of the person you are cheating with, if you can't tell your husband then you are doing something you know you shouldn't. That being said chances are they are going to want a threesome and now have you on film cheating so you are kind of stuck . I have a feeling you will be sucking his cock and getting fucked by him next.
You say that like it's a bad thing.
Nobody likes to be coerced into something....... especially by so-called friends.