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Here is my two cents, take it for what its worth. If you live in the same town as people you have done these things with and there is a chance someone might say something to your husband then it would be a great idea to be honest and just come clean . Let him know you had a very active sex life before the two of you met, you don't have to go into all the dirty details . Just reassure him that he is the only man you want and love and the past is the past. The worst thing to do is not say anything then have him start hearing from other people how many men you fucked before him . It will plant the seed that you are still hiding something and he can't trust you.You never know he may be asking these questions because the thought of you getting fucked by other men or groups of men turns him on.

Thanks I've decided to come clean the next time he asks I will truthfully answer any question he has

He doesn't need to know.

My old lady and I have a "don't ask, don't tell" agreement. I'm sure we have both done things that we may not want the other to know about. It's what her and I do together that's important now, not what we have done in the past.

Honey, I spent 8-years in the Navy, traveled all over the world, and fucked more men, women, couples, and groups that I could ever count. When I got out I went to college and got my masters degree in engineering. When I got married last year my fiance and I agreed we would leave the past the past. My number is well over 100 and his is somewhere around 15 and there's no need for me to rub his face in any of it anymore than I want to know who he shagged, what she looked like, how she was in bed, etc. As long as he doesn't have any baby moma drama out there I'm good.

Thanks

Test the water first with stories of others or/and fantasies, i did and learned that my partner doesnt like the thought me being or had been with more than one guy at once, so i never told him