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Should I confess my affair to my fiancé?
Hi All,
I am about to get married in another 3 months. My fiancé is a virgin. I lied to him that I was also a virgin. But in reality I had a dirty past with 2 guys.
It all started as friendship with them. But soon we had threesomes. They did me countless times. As a teenager I knew it was wrong but couldn't resist the temptation. But now I regret everything. They did me one last time after my engagement. Its been 2 months and I am clean. I love my fiancé so much and I wish to spent my life dedicated only to him. Should I tell him?
Any guy can tolerate a love affair but threesome??
I bet he was fucking around too. Perhaps with your sister or mother. You know I'm right.
I would say depends on the guy, if your fiance was a stud, kind of a dirtbag, open-minded sex monster, then yes; however, judging that he's a virgin, he's probably insecure that you're more experienced than he is, the answer is NO. Don't tell him, 4 years from now when you're bored to hell from having sex with the same inexperienced person, then you decide if you're the cheating type or not, but I would say that those same feelings that caused you to have wild threesomes aren't going to go away just because you say "I do". Just try not to get pregnant before the first 2 years, that's when all the growing pains of marriage iron themselves out or not. Good luck and congrats.
Easy to see your moral compass, start a marriage on a lie . Be a cheating whore through your marriage. Great advise ! How about don't fucking marry the guy because you are to young and immature to get married! Go out and fuck as many men as you want, then when you are ready to settle down and get married find a man that suits you , one you won't cheat on and you don't have to lie about your past to. That way you won't be a human piece of garbage cheating whore!
At 1st I was going to say tell him because i thought it was before you met your fiance. But then you stated that you were fucking those guys AFTER your engagement. So no, don't tell him and hope to God that the other guys don't tell him. However, if the other guys try to blackmail you in order to fuck you again, then you will need to decide wether to be a slut or tell him.
#1. It wasn't wrong
#2. Don't tell him
He won't forgive you, you cheated on him . Even if you were just dating, you still cheated on him. If the two guys you had the threesome with know him they will eventually let it slip out that they both fucked you anyway so you might as well tell him. By the way starting a marriage on a lie shows you are to immature to get married yet.
You've never been married, so there is no affair. btw, don't tell him.