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No idea how some people steal other people's mates
I want my friend's husband for my own so badly. We've been having a very kinky naughty affair for a long while now. Every chance we get we fuck, but we're also friends. We get along so well. Their marriage is not great, but he stays. Their daughters are adults, but are still at home.
I have a kids too, but my kids are younger teenagers. I am not married.
I want him, but I can't help but think of the ramifications. Despite having the affair, I know taking him from my friend would destroy her. Which I don't think I could do. I would never forgive myself. As it is, if she caught us it would be bad, but I truly believe she wouldn't leave him. She doesn't know how to function on her own.
Then there's the kids. Their daughters love me. We all get along great, and I am a very welcome addition to their home when I visit. So are my kids.
Then there's my kids. How do you explain to them that you took someone's husband, and a friend's husband at that?? How do you raise them to be good people if you demonstrate that type of behavior?
But on the other side of things the heart wants what it wants. He feels the same, but for the same reasons we are stuck at a standstill.
I guess, this can be a fling and nothing more. We have to be highly cautious never to be caught. I know I painted myself into this corner, and I am certain no one would have any sympathy for me (nor do I believe I deserve it).
Just putting my feelings into words. Thanks.
If you are her friend, you should stop fucking her husband. Seriously.
Yes, the heart wants what the heart wants. Yet, it's the head that needs to make the right decision for everyone involved. I can't tell you what to do, but it sounds like you've already thought it through and know what's right for you.
My strong suggestion is, if you're not going to make this a permanent thing that you break it off. Otherwise, it just stands that you will eventually be found out, your relationship with your friend and her daughters will be ruined (you will go from friend to homewrecker) and your relationship with your children will suffer. Not to mention what the rumor mill will do to you socially.
You'll both get caught. Cheaters always get caught.
No they don't
That's what you say.......Karma is a bitch.