My butt

My ex had an anal fixation and yet we managed to have one child. I do not miss him at all.

Because it's so humiliating that's why, especially when you suck my cock afterwards.

I, and another guy, had a conversation about this with a hot, gorgeous bartender friend one night. She's well-known for her amazing, perfect ass. And it really is. I've heard women in that sports bar look at her and say "I'd jump the bar for that ass".

Anyway, in a moment of directness about her own marvelous ass, "Kayla" (name change) posed the question to us guys. "Why do you guys only want to do me in the ass? Does fucking a woman in the ass really get you going that much?" she asked, to our answer of "Some guys, yes" and various compliments about hers. "Well, guys, I'm telling you..Most of us don't like it..I've had so many guys tell me, all I want to do is fuck you in the ass..It hurts!". She said it in a lighthearted manner, but, meant it.

My view is, if a woman has that perfect, that desirable and shapely an ass, yes, we want to explore it. In her case, guys fall over themselves just to see her bending over behind the bar. I can' t imagine having a shot at fucking that ass of hers..

I've been married over 25yrs. and I use to hate it, but if he goes in slowly and you get use to it and he works his way up to going faster then it doesn't hurt or as much. Have him rub you while he does it and imagine that he is trying to take advantage of you by rubbing you and trying to take your attention off of what he is doing. That was a turn on for me anyways. I'm sort of like you in the looks dept. and it sounds as if you need to kick these guys to the curb. Go the places that interest you and do things that really bring you fun and happiness and you may meet someone like minded there. The worst thing is to meet someone in a bar; people usually go there to meet people and they usually have problems too.

Hey Honey how about a little update I really hope you did some stretching and use lube and that now you are comfortable accepting those large pricks in your very nice arse, please let us know I for one am so looking forward to hearing you are really loving anal now and your boyfriends are loving you more and more because of it, my husband and I wish you all the best xxx
You seem like a very nice person

I find that most men want and think they need anal sex but only with women who have appealing bums, it is a bit strange but I have a very nice one so everybody says and almost all my dates before I married wanted to take me in the rear I learned to love it my husband now for 5 years just about only does me anally but it is a lot because we both love it so much, he is pretty large and I can let him go at it anytime, maybe you just need some more practice darling, really hope everything works out

I've always preferred anal. Never could get off with vaginal or clitoral stimulation. First time I stuck my hairbrush handle up my ass I orgasmed so hard I passed out. Been obsessed with anal ever since; wear a vibrating plug every day to work, and a larger plug with a pony tail when I walk around the apartment. I let my boyfriend fuck my pussy about once a month, the rest of the time I get him hard with my mouth, then roll over and spread my cheeks for his cock. Never heard him complain.

You sound like a very nice girl, we found after really starting anal solidly it did not take long till both my husband and I only wanted to do anal, so he has not been in my vagina now for 12 months sometimes I do give him a nice blow job if he's a good boy and we will have a 69er but that would only be once every 5 weeks or so, anal is just so terrific for both of us and my orgasms are fabulous, he is pretty large but I can handle him with ease still use a little lube though, he always cum's as far in me as he can get it feels great

You must have a great butt Honey, take it as a compliment, I also suggest you put butt plugs and large dildo's in your obviously beautiful bum, you will get used to it and be able to handle them easily remember it is better if you feel that cock is pretty tight particularly to start off with but use lube every time, my husband and I started about 8 years ago and have been doing anal only for the last 3 it is terrific, he measures an impressive 7 3/4 hard and is quite thick and I can handle him with ease he fill's me and his nuts bang on my butt so I know he is fully in, we both have the greatest orgasms

Kind of made me blush a bit

I just hope you do stretch your bum sweetie and enjoy all those guys mounting and humping it is fantastic
Are you feeling any better about it now ?

It is nice to have everyone here to chat with, ty

That's fine Honey, please start on your stretching programme, and let us know how it all goes, I bet pretty soon you will be loving it and probably just get interested in anal most of the time, please keep us informed and advise if you have a great butt, bet you do, that would be why the guys want to get into it xx

I don't know how to judge my own butt, most people say I'm hot and I have a hot ass. I'm laying in bed alone I have something in there. I'm worried it's too big

Darling please don't be playing around with bottles or home made dildo's do it correctly go to the adult shop and purchase a couple of sizes butt plugs and dildo's or vibrators and only use them, ensure you use lube at every entering, you can warm up with the dildo's and vibrators then pop in a plug and leave it in for as long as you like, my husband even now pop's a large one in me after our morning shower on Saturday and I wear it while we go shopping he says it keeps my mind on what is important and it certainly does by the time we get home I am virtually screaming to get nude on all fours and begging him to mount and ride, please let us know how everything goes sweetie everyone is on your side, you certainly sound like a fantastic girl, maybe with one of your smaller boyfriends you could introduce the toys as part of your sexual play that would add a bit of fun Helen xx

I'm not married but I have four lovers and they to want my ass a lot of the time and secretly I love it for I cum a lot harder that way and a lot longer which I love. The big secret is learning to relax then let him have his way with you.

They do it because you let them. Quit letting them.

Sounds like bullshit to me

Darling anal is just so terrific my husband and I have been doing it for five years and for the last three that has been the only way we have sex, start off by stretching your bum with butt plugs and ever increasing sizes of vibrators and dildo's, use a lot of lube, when you feel comfortable have your guy lube you and his prick then have him mount you doggy style taking it easy at first, you will be astounded how terrific it is, most of the girls I know are pestered by their men to let them in the rear I think it is a power thing with guys, most of my girlfriends like it some more than others

Like I said I don't hate it , but some of the guy's I've dated were way big and that's all they want to do.

Darling please read my reply start stretching your arse and you will be fine with any size

They're not too big, you can take way more than you think.

Some guy's are too big

Wife used to think so, now she can take a lubed fist pretty easily. She's 5'9" 135ish.

Be quiet and enjoy it.

These guys are fucking your ass because you let them go at it bareback. Tell them they need to wear a condom no matter what hole they use and most will switch to your pussy.

You think so ?