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Can friends have sex
Is it ok for a man and a woman who are older to have sex as friends and keep the friendship in tact? I have a long time woman friend who was extremely sexual most of her life, she just recently turned me down when I asked her for sex. We did have sex when we were younger and being we were close friends at the time she was one of the best sexual experiences of my life. The thing is I know she wants to but is afraid sex will destroy our friendship. It didn't the last time when she seduced me. I was hurt when she said no and I'm feeling like if your my close friend and I needed something that bad I'd help in anyway. What I asked for was something we already did 30 years ago out of her desperation and now I have a desperation for her. I can get laid, that's not the problem, I loved the intimacy with a friend and she has meant a lot to me since we met, I want her sex more so than with anyone else in the world. So how common is it that plain old good friends have sex together and how could respectful sex hurt our friendship, seems my feelings of our long friendship could be in trouble for me if she won't have sex with me, I really didn't think it was a big deal for her and I to get laid again. It's not like she hasn't been with dozens of guys, I know she has, I think she had more sex with more guys than anyone I know. What's the problem with friends fucking friends as friends?
I have BFF that we will fuck anytime we see each other. We started in our teens and it's been going on for 30 years. She wasn't looking for an LTR and neither was I but we were horny and we took care of each other's needs. All we had to do was call the other up and just ask if you wanted to fuck. We can talk about anything to each other and get an honest answer or discussion.
You both are very much older and possess mature outlook about sexual activities. Having said that everything is ok in sex between men and women of your age. Enjoy till the urge is alive and burning.
Just keep at it in a soft but not kidding way. Let her save you from a meaningless relationship that you have for sex only.
Just be friends. She doesn't want to fuck you because she would feel empty afterwards. She probably felt that way with you earlier too. Be a friend, not a hookup.
Not much of a friend if you can get your cock up het or get to lick het old puss .
BULLSHITE
All I can say, keep telling her you love her to death as a friend, how special she is to you, no matter what, it won't change. That it's better to do it with someone who cares about her than someone who doesn't. Even if you both do it once or multiple times... Best of luck!