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Do i tell?
Basically my boyfriend has proposed and we plan to get married within a year,
however we were discussing previous exs and sexual partners and i stupidly and nerviously said that i had only ever slept with boyfriends so that would make 4. he then admitted after that he had plenty of one night stands and his number was 10 with one ex girlfriend.
however the truth is i have had many one night stands and i have decided i will tell him and be honest about it, the trouble is....there is so much do i tell him about everything? do i tell him about....
the 2 different 3ways i had in uni?
the 3 locals in new Zealand?
the business men in Dubai?
my exs brother?
my other ex's dad?
the fuckbuddy through college and his mate?
the two men in poland
my friend and her boyfriend
or the orgy that i took part in in south africa where there was 4 of us girls and 14 different men!
i would like to point out that i had been tested and cleared of all stds BEFORE i had even met him 2 years ago and i have never cheated, and no i was not a hooker i was just having fun!
i want to tell him it all so i can ne honest with him but i would sound like such a slut!
any advice?
Just tell him the number..if he wants to know more you can elaborate slowly. if he is turned on, then continue. if he has problems with it days later then cease informing him.
Im sure telling him i have slept with 47 diffrent guys will raise questions though
Good strategy
Got so hard reading this, how old are you? damm right you had some fun! and so did all the guys
Im 26 and yes i did have some fun
The real question isn't if you tell him, it's if you can deal with a monogamous relationship for the rest of your life (or the length of your marriage)? I had a lengthy and storied past myself, chose not to tell my very religious fiance (who had only been with one other girl before me) and had to carefully introduce him to everything from some basic positions beyond missionary to oral, anal, and light B&D. We're 3-years into our marriage now and I've got him pretty well trained, but you need a firm hand to get him out of his comfort zone and into your erogenous zone.
Oh i can deal with the commitment, i love him! and now i wasnt noone else but before i just enjoyed being with many, im nit the same girl anymore
I'm married to a very religious man who thinks I only ever had sex with my ex husband and I plan to keep it that way, I see no reason to upset him with the real number of boys and men I have slept with or done oral sex on. That shouldn't be the thing that ruins our marriage but I know he would look down on me if he knew. The truth is at thirteen I took the abstinence pledge in my church youth group, by fourteen I lost my virginity. By the time I graduated high school I had slept with seven different boys and gave countless other boys blowjobs. Basically back then if you had a car and took me out, you were at lease getting a blowjob at the end of the night. After that I slept with fifteen men before my ex husband and another seven men after him. If you don't think your fiance' can handle knowing the real number of sexual partners you had then I would say leave your past in the past . Keep those happy memories to yourself.
Your a hot slut, bet you still want some strange cock, don't you?
Do not tell. Seriously.
Tell him and he will get vary hard
That could happen and it would be what i prefer