Anal tips

As others have said, a butt plug, or a series of increasingly larger butt plugs are probably the simplest approach.

Have you ever had to poop and what came out was really large. I bet that it didn't hurt as much as it did when you tried to have anal. The key, as others have said is relaxation. You can't just will yourself to relax and make it happen.

So when you are trying to poop, you contract some muscles in your abdomen and you try to push out, and your anus relaxes. And when he is trying to go in, you believe that it is going to hurt, and so you tense up, and the muscles spasm and it does hurt.

Starting with a small butt plug and wearing it for a couple of hours every day for a week or two, then stepping up a size, and wearing that for a couple of hours each day will teach you how to relax back there. It's not so much about stretching, it's just learning to have something in there without tensing up.

For any given sex session, you could also have three or four dildos of different sizes and work your way up with those as well. Of course lots of lube is essential as many people mentioned.

Best of luck to you.

Dont have an enema despite what someone here said, that can actually cause irritation. Use a good lube (I recommend vaseline, baby oil or one that you can get online called 'Booty relax') dont use KY as it can slip out a lot.
Lie on your front the first few times rather than the doggy style position as this relaxes the muscles, going doggy can hurt.
An orgasm will help to further relax the muscles so get him to go down first or work a bit of finger magic, after all he has to earn the prize. Hopefully this will help, every woman I have done this with has had mind blowing intense orgasms

Try giving yourself (or have your husband do it) an enema first. Just warm tap water several times, this will make things less messy and will also make penetration easier.

Try using a butt plug. Put it in for a few hours before you do it so it stretches the anus and then use lots of lube.

I found positions make all the difference, first time i was in my side and it went all the way in with ease and i really enjoyed it, second was on my back and it hurt like hell, so try diffrent positions and lots and lots of lube, domt be forcefull and do plenty of foreplay with fingers and toys, now i have been opened up down there i love anal, and doggy style while getting fucked up with arse in amazing.
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Lots of lube! The spoon position is great to start out with. Then, I usually turn over to my hands and knees while my hubby keeps his cock in me. I love anal as much (maybe more) as vaginal sex.

You should try both at same time! it is even better! ;) xcassiex

Will put that on the "to do" list. ;-)

The important thing is that it is for him. You sacrifice for his enjoyment. Let him know that you are doing this for him.

With Trump president, women must now serve men in all aspects. So if your a woman and voted for him this is what you sluts deserve. No go git me a beer, and it better be cold.

That is so wrong sister she will be happy getting it anally and love it as long as they take it easy and like and be patient with the experience this crap that only males like anal because it gives them some sort of dominance is so wrong I love getting it in there my hubby is fantastic at mounting me

Please keep with it sweetheart you both will just love it, there are some very good suggestions already here, even though my husband is quite large and thick after stretching with lube and dildos (we still use a lot of lube) I can accommodate him and love him being in me we just do doggy now, having him cum in my rear feels just so nice

The best thing is start stretching your ass with ever increasing sizes of butt plugs and dildos use lube when doing it, make him wait till you feel comfortable getting a dildo about his size in there, of course he can help with these duties, once you are confident try front on with your legs right up over his shoulders then move onto doggy it is just so great please keep at it you both will just love it, my husband and I have been doing it for years and for about the last three we only do anal, occassionaly I will give him a nice blow job or we will do a 69er

My suggestion....take it slow!!!! Have him tongue your ass. It lubes and relaxes. Then have him start to play with it, fingers, etc while he keeps eating your ass. It's been my experience that when the girl is relaxed it is amazing for both!

I have done all the foreplay and used all the lube my wife still says no to me but still says my dick is to small but lets someone else (with a bigger dick) do it
to her just not me.
she even started cuckold me with me lying on the couch her and him in the bedroom and bathroom will recuperating after heart surgery

Get a strap on and give it to him, so he knows what you are feeling.

Yes! I love when my wife pulls out her strap on. don't forget the "reach around".

Just remember to give him a hand job while you're doing it and he'll be one happy husband!