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Should I or shouldn't I?
Hey everybody. I've been happily married for over 20 years and have never been unfaithful to my wife. We're in the process of moving and will be out of our house (and completely out of the state) in another two months. I work from home and my wife has an office job with a 30-minute commute. Our neighbor Shelly is married and has always flirted with me, even right in front of my wife. I've never really been attracted to blondes or big tits (I'm partial to brunettes with long legs and nice asses), but Shelly's flirting with me got me to start thinking about her sexually a long time ago. Yes, I have masturbated over thoughts of doing her many, many times. Now that we're outta here, Shelly stops over unannounced this past Friday to simply tell me that she's available any time I want her with no strings attached. I'm very tempted, but aren't there always strings?
Go for it. Before I moved into my house, with my then-fiance, I had a hot, biker chick-type apartment neighbor who had a thing for me. Would flirt, tan in her bikini behind my bedroom window, invite me in for a drink..We got along well, and I'd be lying if said never wanted to fuck her, but, I was engaged and not that type of guy who'd cheat.
Turned out, we were both vacating our apartments about the same time, and figured, nothing to lose. So, one weekend, as she washed her car, dressed in hot little jeans shorts and a black bikini top..I went downstairs (we had an up and down duplex), and told her..Let's. One word, that's all it took. We went upstairs to my apartment, and, fucked like animals until early evening. No regrets, no relationship stuff..Just two people who had an intense, physical attraction. And she was GOOD...
Speaking from my own experience, I had made wedding vows and had intended to keep them. Then I had sex with someone else due to excessive alcohol and a bit of a rough patch/sexual dry spell in my marriage. My partner never caught me (although suspected), and even though my marriage did eventually end, this is what bothered me the most: I had always thought of myself as a good, loyal man and would never cheat. Once I had I had to say goodbye to me being that better person that had never betrayed my partner, I was a guy that would cheat. I hate feeling that way, even now.
She is playing you for some reason, but I'm not sure what that might be. What I do know is that most men fall to their knees over hot, tight, wet pussy. I'm guessing you already have decided to dip it in.
I say you only live once .. just do it & try not to get yourself caught .. it's normal to love someone and liking someone else at the same time but its taboo because were taught in american society & by religion that you should only have sex with nobody else other than your significant other and thats just not realistic .. this is why people make marital mistakes all the time because being attracted to someone is a natural & normal feeling ..
^A devil on the other...
There are always strings, and besides its just wrong. You say you're happily married, so why mess with it?
^An angel on one shoulder...
Do it and enjoy every bit of it. I love my wife, but the sexual chemistry just isn't there. Every woman that I've cheated on my wife with was way better in bed. No, it's not because we shouldn't be doing it. They just know how to enjoy sex. They fuck longer, suck longer, swallow (my wife never sucks long enough for me to cum), they have sex in public and they always want more.
Get it while you can.