I don't like my wife being friends with her ex husband
I'm sure a lot of guys of all ages have this problem, women too. And I dont want to fight about it with my wife anymore.
I am married just over 5 years to my wife. Very attractive woman, I am lucky. We have a good relationship and our sex life is satisfying. One thing really bothers me though. We occasionally see her ex husband a few times a month because he stayed good friend with her brother. Nice guy, respects me, and i generally have no problem with this.
My beef with my wife is, I dont want him invited to things at our house just because hes her brothers friend. Its just the way i am. He IS an ex after all! The reason i have a this beef with him being around is, because my wife has told me at times their marriage was held together on sex. Rough, degrading sex. She was tied up, he had friends watch, etc. I am civil to him and all, but i have a hard time sometimes seeing them interact. Even just normal talking.
And when i battle her on saying "no , theres no reason for him this!”, she would yell back at me in anger saying like "Why? afraid hes gonna tie me up and fuck me?!” I would yell back at her for saying things like that, and it turns into a 1 hour shouting match.
What the hell is going through her mind saying shit like that me when i am expressing a legitimate concern?
Him and his buddies fucking her
Well maybe because when they were together, he tied her up and she likes that you are plain, shes bored with that. I know cause once you get into freaky, pain will never do again.
He did. He fucked her raw, degraded her, and did all kinds of extreme stuff. Even made his friends watch. But im a fit attractive guy who does satisfy her. This guy was on an extreme level. If she wants that kind of sex i can give it to her.
PLAIN