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Help please...
Actually i need help on this...
I'm 24-yr old girl. Virgin. Never had a boyfriend.
But despite all those, i'm really sexual.
I love watching porns and masturbating. And i swear, i really wanna stop what i've been doing.
I have a nice figure and i get a lot of guys drooling at me, and i'm loving the attention.. i love it when they are staring lustfully at my body, touching me "unintentionally"(even if it's really intentional), whistling at me in the streets. I know it's a sin to be lustful. Amd i wanna stop it but can't. :(
Sex isn't bad, evil or a sin. Having a response to stimulus isn't bad. God gave you this body and the responses you have as a way of giving you a reward and relief for hard times. It's not about guilt or pleasure, it's about moderation. Love the taste of cake, that's fine just don't eat the entire cake. Enjoy masturbating, that's great too, just don't spend the day lost in porn with your hand up your vagina. It's fine to feel good about yourself, it enjoy it when someone appreciates the body God gave you. But you need to also keep in mind that God gave you all these feels to share with someone - don't spend your life lost in want and need. Find your forever partner and learn what true love and sex is all about.
You can be the great if never had a boyfriend or then you are just a prick teaser
What you're feeling is natural. I believe it only becomes a problem if it starts leading to immoral actions. But there's nothing wrong with being a sexual being. The overwhelming majority of people are.
My problem is that i feel guilty cos i'm a Christian
I'm a Christian as well, and I believe there is nothing wrong or sinful about sexuality unless it causes immoral behavior like sleeping with someone else's spouse. God gave us each our own gifts, so there's no reason not to share them with the world if it makes you feel good.
Totally natural. I wouldn't beat myself up over it.