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I rub my clit a lot, almost everyday. And i find it sexy to suck big tits. Ive tried sex with girls but not with boys i havent had deep penetration with boys yet i like both, do i consider myself lesbo? Or other girls feel this way too?
Of course you are a lesbian. And you know that. Your question is just aiming to make you convince yourself that you are normal.
You are you and not a label. The experiences are very different and a one night stand or FWB is not the same --in either case-- as a long term relationship. It is fun to play with tits and more so if they are big and nicely shaped and I think even a gay guy would enjoy rubbing and hefting a pair of DDs or DDDs. I would suggest that you look at the Kinsey scale and how it came to exist. Labels make other people comfortable; that is, people who are saying something about you rather than themselves. You are you and if today you feel like a girl (as in want) and tomorrow you feel like a boy and the next day you feel like a transman, who's business is it but your own? That being said, the previous commenter is correct and if you wanted to identify as some label, bisexual (covers cis men and cis women) or Pansexual (also covers transmen and transwomen) would be appropriate.
In any case, don't let other people's experiences sway you into some sort of exclusivity. Being Bi (or rather Pan but explaining that is exhausting!) myself I can safely say that it is very satisfying and relaxing to just be yourself. You sound young enough so my particular "important" advise to you is to find a support group because being differently sexual can be stressful and coming out, even to supportive parents, can be a stressful experience. If there isn't one, start one; you'd be surprised how many people feel just like you. Incidentally, do not let the girls get an easy piece of you just because they are girls --even if they have a super yummy rack LOL! Go on a few dates (maybe have her take you to dinner?) before you jump in bed with them; you'll be glad you did afterwards and your self esteem will be safer and stronger for it.
Thank you so much for putting so much effort in this comment. I just randomly post to get advise from other people whom i dont know so that it wont be bias. Im so shy to reply to your comment but you have helped me a lot. Continue to share your brilliant thoughts. I think you are a psychologist. Hoho. Thank you dear.
If you like both men and women you would be considered bisexual or bi curious.