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Obligation Sex
My wife sees sex as an obligation. It is so boring. It has to be missionary position. She lies there and I shove it in. Whenever I ask for sex she obliges. You would think that was great and when we were first married it was sort of fun but now I'm sick of it. She never gets turned on.
I've tried to talk to her about it and basically she sees sex as an obligation. her duty. She says that she does not get turned on because she is focussed on giving me what I need. Sometimes I can see it hurts when she is dry and I push too hard. I have talked with her and she says that pain is part of the sacrifice and it just helps to remind her to relax and not resist me.
So if I say I'd like sex tonight then after the kids are in bed we will go into the bed room and she will take off her clothes so she is completely nude and pull the bed clothes back on the bed and just lie down on her back with her legs apart and hands beside her. I undress to whatever degree I want and get on top and push in. She will use one of her hands to guide my penis in and then go back to having her hands beside her. Sometimes she will grimace and then I know it's hurting and I slow down. Sometimes I use lube but she has said that it is ok to not use lube. If she puts her knees up I know it's hurting and I slow down and her response is to apologise and put her legs back flat. he basic thing is that she tries to relax and that apparently is supposed to be the right thing to do. To not resist.
But it just kills me. I want to have exciting sex with her. You might say well don't have sex with her but even then if I don't ask for about a week she will start to say things like its been a week or my body is yours you know. And you might say why not try to get her in the mood and I have tried. Tried flowers and candles and go out for dinner and have the kids babysat or even have a weekend away in motel. Ask or don't ask. As soon as it looks like progressing to sex, she just undresses and lies there legs apart.
You are a fucking idiot ! Does the word foreplay mean anything to you. What a poor excuse for a man !
While she is in missionary, lube your dick and stick it in her ass accidentally.
When will you guys learn? Get you a nice guy or two to suck your cock and drain your balls. You'll soon forget about pussy. Just keep loving your wife --- but get men to suck your cock and take it in the ass for you. I'm a 74-year old married white guy, been sucking cock only 3 years, and absolutely love it. Love my wife, too, but no sex there. Men sucking cock is great. You won't believe how nice it is to get your big cock sucked by a fellow who really wants to be sucking it. Give it a try. It's as close as Craigslist.
Why don't you leave her and jump into my bed? Let me know if you're interested so I can give you my contact info. I'll be waiting here, naked. ;)
Don't do it man! It's not gonna end well!
Are you male or female? I only want pussy
I'm all woman. Are you telling me you're interested? Please say yes. ;)
I'm interested where do you live?
You know what? Screw you! I'd rather be with a single guy who doesn't have so much emotional baggage. Be a man and fix things with your wife. :P
Don't you want to know anything before you come find me?
Oh yes I want to know plenty about you but not much point if you a half a world away?
I'm sorry but I've been lying to you. The truth is I really am a man. :'(
What if I told you I was still naked? ;)
Why don't we talk here? Haven't you ever heard of sexting? ;)
This is weird and awkward....and uncomfortable.
It's obviously discomforting for you (the sex too). Use lube - use it every time, man. If she's telling you she's accepting of that discomfort... she's whacked in the head, and that would drive my sex drive down the drain as well. That's just my personal take on this. For the sake of your sanity, might be worth visiting a marriage counselor - there might be more going on behind that veil of submissiveness that needs to be brought to light. If she's not damaged goods, it sounds like you're getting that way. Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all. Best of luck!
Maybe dominate her...she might want to be manhandled.