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Fiancee is bad in bed
I love my fiancee, he is a good decent man and hes shown me that he cares for me a lot but Im also being very honest when I say that he really is NOT a very good lover. Lets start by the fact that he is really not well endowed, I mean he doesnt have a tiny penis either but I wouldnt call it a strong "manly" cock that when you see it you just want to grab it and play with it, thats not really the case; his penis is thin, not very robust, definitely the smallest penis from the men that Ive been in the past with.
I wish that was all, because as a woman I can manage with a "below average" size cock, but another problem is also his attitude in bed, maybe because he knows he doesnt have a big penis he is usually very insecure and timid about sex. I really have never seen myself as a "freak" when it comes to sex but just like any woman sometimes Id like my man to show me his masculine lustful side; if we are on a serious steady relationship I think the man has the liberty to sometimes just grab me and fuck me hard all over the room, no romance, no sweet kissing, just plain horny rough fucking, I mean yeah I dont think there is anything wrong with it and I love to feel that type of raw desire from my man!
Well my fiancee has never acted that way with me, I think he would be ashamed to show me that he is just horny and wants to fuck me. Hes always loving and its almost like hes asking for permission when he wants to push his cock in me. Ive tried acting a little naughty to show him that its ok if he wants to just "take advantage" of me sometimes, but he just doesnt respond that way, he wants to be always loving when having sex, believe me thats sweet and there is nothing wrong with that, but when sex is "always" that way, then you start to wish that sometime he would just grab you and fuck you like a little whore all over the room.
I dont know whats going to happen, because we are engaged, there is no date for the wedding yet but I really have all these doubts, I feel a little shallow for putting so much importance on these "sexual" faults of him, but I dont know I guess thats why Im opening up here to hear what others think about that. Thanks!
Peg him!!
Tell him you want to be treated like a whore sometimes. If he is a man he should react to that
I agree with the comments below (exept the cheating). you should figure out if you wanna be with someone, who cant take care of you sexually, for the rest of your life or not. this isnt about if hes decent or not. and im talking from a mans perspective, so you go figure this out.
This is a big challenge. You need to figure out if you can live like this, if you're not going to marry him or if you're going to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere. I get sex outside of my marriage and my husband benefits because it makes me hornier for him. I know many people would say it is wrong for me to cheat, but it works for me. I have no shame in being a slut.
Your fiancee may be very caring but that does not take care of the huge deficit in his penis size as well as coldness when it comes to sex, from what you wrote, he loosing interest in sex over a period of time is eminent, I suggest you re-think your plans
Not shallow at all - this is as valid as the polar opposite of having a sexual dynamo lover with zero personality and no life skills. Make sure you are engaged to the right person before going through with that wedding, is my suggestion. If you think the long term result will be a sexless marriage, you're setting yourself up for disaster. There's a time to be a little selfish - think of yourself and your long term happiness! If you're going to end up being miserable, you're both going to be miserable.