Guy getting too close to my flirty wife
My wife is a very flirty woman, she likes to play around with guys and sometimes she lets them get physically "too close" to her. I dont think she has ever cheated on me and I dont doubt her, but theres been a couple times in the past where I know for a fact that the other guy imagined there was something else going on.
There is this guy from her group of friends whom I think has taken things a little out of line. A couple weeks ago there was a party going on at my house, and he and my wife were hugging playing around (usual stuff) but then I literally saw him putting his hand on my wife's ass, and I dont mean just touching it, I mean he literally grabbed her by the ass and left his hand there for a good 20-30 seconds while they were shuffling around.
That was the first time and I let that one slide, but last week at another reunion I saw they were all talking in a group and he was sitting on a sofa, then suddenly I saw him pulling my wife to make her sit on his lap, he started touching her again, stroking her legs and then I even saw him sliding his hands under her skirt against her thighs.
I didnt want to do anything at the moment to not create a scene but I thought that went too far. I dont know exactly what to do because as I said my wife has always been like that and it doesnt look like shes taking him serious. For a moment I even imagined that he may be already fucking my wife, but my wife doesnt show any signs of carrying an affair, shes loving, she doesnt dissapear on me for periods of time, I dont have any reasons to doubt her, and besides all that if she was having an affair with him I dont think she would be that stupid to do things in front of me.
I think shes just being the way shes always been, and it is him the one who is taking things out of line, to be honest the whole situation has made me feel a little emasculated.
My husbands best friend has been coming onto me ever since the first day I met him.
A week later I was setting the table for dinner he came up behind me slipped his hands beneath my skirt right to my abdomen and pulled me tight against him and started in kissing my neck, I somehow broke free of him told him no and started to return to the kitchen to get the silverware and he blocked me from going into the dinning room< told him to let me by and quit coming onto me and he took hold of me and said common you know you like it and started in kissing me right on my lips. His hands took hold of my ass and he pulled me tight against him and there was no doubt he had a good woody, I finally broke free of him and told him NO MORE but he continued and then I placed a knee right to his balls and he went down cursing me and I just smiled and told him he had it coming.
Almost two weeks went by and no problems and then one morning about 30 minutes after my husband left for work there he was standing in our kitchen his cock in his hand telling me I was going to get it for kneeing him I told him to leave or he might get it again, well within 10 minutes he had stripped me of all of my clothes and he had his cock buried deep in me, I got to the point telling myself just go along with him and once he cums he'll leave me alone. Well it didn't happen quite like that for he fucked me so good I started in fucking him back and we continued well into the afternoon not quitting till almost the time my husband gets home from work.
Jim stayed there sitting at the kitchen table when my husband walks in kisses me on the cheek and asked how my day went, not really waiting for me to answer he says he's gonna jump in the shower and tells Jim clad to see him and he'll be down in a half hour or so. As soon as the shower turns on Jim pulled me to him and sat me on his lap and buried his hard cock right into my pussy and filled me with his cum once more.
I to in my late teens and early twenties was quite the flirt married for three years and a good friend of my husband who every time he saw me he'd carry the flirting going overboard. We had a new years party at our house for we had a very large rec room and being the hostess hubby wanted me to dress in a short skirt and just a sweater which I did, but the sweater he picked out for me to wear was quite big one and every time I bent down I noticed I was giving guys a good view of my breasts me and it kept slipping off of my shoulder almost exposing a breast or two when I bent over serving drinks and picking up empties. I wasn't really flirting that night but guys started in groping at me and a few even reached down and took hold of my breasts from behind me.
I could go on and on what happened that night but at the stroke of 12 my husband wasn't around and I got kissed by 11 guys really good turning me on and two guys must have had it planned they sandwich me between them and I ended up getting fucked by both of them. Yes I got into it.
It isn't normal for your wife to flirt and being married she should tell him he is getting out of line. The fact that she isn't means she is considering it or has already done it. Can't believe you didn't say something then and there; the guy thinks it is alright by you and he won't stop until you create a scene and make it obvious to him and your wife that you will not tolerate that kind of behavior. That isn't flirting that is sexual activity and your wife it letting it happen. A guy on here did the same thing and his wife ended up having sex with the guy. Put a stop to all the flirting. Flirting isn't harmless, it is something you do to let someone know you are sexually interested in them. She is letting it happen; you better let her know quick that it is wrong. Perhaps you should get your wife to do other things and stay away from this guy.
There was this guy in the circle of friends of my husband that was always making passes at me when we were first married and it went on for nearly a year till he came over one morning when ,my husband was at work and took hold o9f me spun me around and gave me one hell of a kiss as his hands went right under my skirt and took hold of my ass holding me tight against him.
He first had his way with me and I fought him all of the time right there in the kitchen, then in the living room, ended up on my bed and he must have came in me four times that day.
Again the following day he came over and just walked in took me by the arm and took me to my bed room thru me upon my bed stripped me of my clothes telling me I don't need to be dressed at all during the day for I am to be ready for him at any time as he got between my legs and slowly slid his cock deep into me as he started in sucking upon my breasts. It was just a matter of minutes till he drove me to my first orgasm and I wrapped my legs about him holding him tight to me.
Daily within a hour after my husband goe4s to work Ron comes over and has his way with me all day long and yesterday Ron left out the back door just as my husband came in the front door all because he wanted me one more time and yes I wanted him too.
I love the way you can't accept it by convincing yourself she's always been like that and it's ok. Even from another woman's point of view you really are a joke.
That is right. Once you marry, you shouldn't be flirting; that is sexual behavior. If you don't want to share her, you'd better wise up and make a scene.
This guy isn't emasculating you. You are emasculating yourself. You're putting your own feelings aside to avoid making waves. That's not going to fix this. You need to draw the line with him. This guy touches your wife with impunity because there are no consequences. I know you don't want to make a scene, but if you don't speak up, then you have no one to blame but yourself if it continues. If it makes a scene, so be it.
That is 1000% right. Making a scene is the only way to ensure him and your wife understands that they have crossed the line. Why do you keep saying the guy is at fault; your wife is your wife and is equally at fault as she allows it to happen because it makes her horny. Wake up; he is making your wife horny in front of you and she isn't saying no.