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I want my married friend
We're both married and unhappy. My husband has become addicted to his video games, his health is terrible and he refuses to take better care of himself.He has no sex drive and avoids my natural desires for sexual satisfaction. I met this guy through a good friend of mine. He's also in a bad marriage his wife cheated on him and then left him for her lover who then dumped her. He refused to let her move back in but does have a few older children with her so he feels caught in limbo for now. I am seriously attracted to this guy, he has a lot of good things going for himself except for a good woman in his life. He's ambitious and has a great job. I know he's very attracted to me, I see it in his eyes when he talks to me. I know he touches me like it was an accident or he once was sitting next to me hip to hip just so he could be touching me in some innocent way. I love when he does that. I don't say anything nor do I pull away from him. We never led each other on, he once said he didn't want to put himself in the middle of my marriage but you know, I want him to. I'm done with my marrige,I want this guy. I want to pull him out of limbo and take him into my life and leave my stuggling marrige behind. I'm scared to make a move on him, I'd have sex with him in a heartbeat but I don't want to be like his wife, a cheat. I know that would turn him off. I'm stuck financially and at this point fearful that I'll be here for the rest of my life sad, sexually deprived and broke. I have feelings for my husband but I'm not in love anymore and he could never sexually satisfy me with his limp dick he refused to do anything about after I begged him to see a doctor for it. I see this guy a few times a month in a small group of friends, I feel desperate to be with him and have been so close to saying I love you because I think I do and I think he's in love with me too. Do you think I should take the chance, leave my marriage and tell my friend I'm in love with him? Should I tell my friend I'm in love with him before I tell my husband I'm leaving him? It may not be the worst thing if I left my husband anyway, it really is a lousy marriage for me.
Having an emotional relationship is just as bad as a physical one. Leave if you are unhappy. It will hurt but you will be stronger in the end. Don't think about the finances, money comes and goes, you'll be fine.
Life is too short. And nobody is going to look out for "number one" but you. I say go for it. Otherwise you'll regret forever that you never took the chance.