Might get my end in
I have been alone for quite a while and six months ago met a very nice sexy lady we were instantly attracted don't know why I am just pretty reasonable certainly not exceptional, look after myself but have a bit of a gut, wear nice cloths and stay well groomed with thinning hair, she is a real stunner and younger than I by seven years, we always enjoy each others company and before I pick her up for a date I anken so I don't get too horny, when in the car for the last two months she has put her hand on my leg and moved it up to sort of cuddle my groin, I have had a couple of horns but she does not play or grasp, on dates now being at least twice a week we kiss, cuddle, grab/hold each others bum and I have squeezed a tit or two, we have not had or talked about sex, we are both independent own our own houses and no kids or partners, have good jobs and very happy with life, I think it is about time I made love to her but I don't want to mess that up how do I go about it ? I am a bit out of practice
Just to give an update, for valentines we went to a nice hotel on the Central coast (Newcastle) , I booked two rooms with internal access, no need she just walked straight into the same one as I was heading for and said "I think it's about time don't you" we had such a great time then had a very nice meal with a few drinks and got right back into it, so good now, we have no plans of living together but everything is just fine
You will get into her but just take your time, obviously you are a very nice, decent couple so I suggest you keep up the ankening before each date but you should start playing with her upper leg and cuddling her groin at every opportunity without pushing or squeezing, she would probably want you to make the first move so maybe a weekend away at a nice hotel with conjoining rooms I guarantee after a nice meal few drinks, cuddle etc. you would waste your money on one room, all the best pal you sound like you both should just love each other
Six months??? She wants it, you want it, so stop wanking off, let her feel your manhood, slide a finger in her panty to feel how wet she is ... or if you are more romantic, invite her to a weekend away...
why not have sex at this point??? It is healthy, unless...
Take it slow man, don't push it too much. It will happen!
Good Luck