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Cheated before wedding
I cheated on my fiance at my bachelorette party. I know people say this is your last night of freedom but I feel terrible now. I wont go into graphic detail but we had a stripper like so many bachelorette parties do in our hotel room. He took off his clothes and most of my friends and I rubbed lotion all over his body and stroked his dick. He also took off my clothes and gave me oral sex in front of them and afterwards we took a shower together. In the shower, we made out and I gave him a blowjob to completion. We did not have sex but I still feel terrible about how I acted. Should I tell my husband or just let it go as a one night thing?
I'm sorry to say but yes I would tell him and just face the consequences and if you have kids kids come first before yourself I know people are not going to like what I just said take care of yourself
*DO*NOT* tell your husband about your activities! The terrible feeling you have is your punishment for what you did. If you tell him you will make him feel terrible too, but you won't feel any better. And it might end your marriage!
YES you should tell him, yes it is cheating.
You have to ask yourself - do you want a relationship based on honest and openness, or based on mistrust and lies? If he can't trust you, can you trust him? It's going to hurt, but you need to accept the consequences of what you did in order to fully learn from it.
Plus, what is he going to think if someone else tells him and you've been swearing that nothing happened?
Honey, that's not cheating. Stop fretting. I have had sex with men other than my hubby. Now THAT is cheating. BTW, I love cheating. It's the best. Relax, maybe you should try it for real sometime.
No, it is cheating, several times over. Every minute of everyday you’ve been with your husband is a lie. You need to fess up and accept the consequences.
And catch HIV