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Should I tell him?
I cheated on my fiance before we were engaged.It was 3 years ago,I was 20 at the time.We had only been together 3 months and I stayed at his while he went to work.Then I met his neighbor.A nice guy in mid 30's.He was just friendly at first then we got talking and he said I could hang out with him and use his gym equipment in his spare room.We worked out together for weeks.And I must admit I got horny on most occasions,getting all sweaty and seeing a sweaty,ripped guy.Then it was one time i used his shower and i came out in a towel.He was just in gym shorts and he was still sweaty and i noticed his bulge.Well i couldn't help it,i went over to him and grabbed his package and he pulled the towel off and started kissing me.He then put me on a workout bench and opened my thighs and ate me right out.Then he peeled his shorts off and my eyes went wide when i saw it.I had to suck it.Then he slid it in me and gave me another sweaty workout.We were both fulfilled after 30 minutes and when he stood up,i looked down between my legs and realized i needed another shower.
The few months to follow was all about working out followed by sex,until we decided to stop it.We still share a smile from time to time and he winks at me but that's all.I still think about it and get horny and even have a good old play sometimes. But after me a my boyfriend got serious i knew that i would never do that again.Now that we're engaged i just thought i should tell him.
This is an old post, but really hot. I do hope that you told him, and I hope that he found it incredibly erotic and that you've incorporated you being with other men into your sex life.
It's not terribly likely, but some men would find being married to a woman who embraces her sexuality and freely and openly enjoys other men to be a dream come true! I know this because I'm one of them. My wife is allowed and encouraged to have sex with other men and women, and the fact that she does so is one of the greatest joys of my life. Honesty is critical, though. We've had a couple of "rule breaks" that have caused problems, but we've always worked things out. I only wish that she was MORE promiscuous.
Why would you tell him? Unless you are willing to break up, don't. Our society has labeled this cheating, but that's because somewhere along the lines we decided that monogamy is right. It isn't for everyone. My husband is monogamous and I am not. I will never tell him and it works.
You sound like a wonderful woman.... I'm just like you with my wife.
FFS you should have told him before the engagement. As someone has has been cheated on, YES tell him. I'm really glad I found out before things went too far. At least with her telling me and being honest (finally) it meant we could part as friends. Of course, your cheating is really, really bad so you might not be able to salvage that.
Yeah, I'd be pissed if I was with somebody who was banging some douchebag many months that we were together. Serious or not, you're still in a relationship. And some ppl might be able to forgive if it happened 1 time, but for months?! Nuuh. Best of luck tho.