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My parents helped taking my girlfriends virginity
My parents are of the hippie, new age kind of type. They are very sexually liberal, whereas I tend to be more conservative. From time to time Ive been bothered by them having sex in the living room, and they walking naked through the house. I have a beautiful girlfriend, and recently I decided to invite her to my home. We have been together for six months, and my parents invited us for dinner and wine. My parents asked alot of personal questions and soon enough found out we hadn't slept together, but that my girlfriend had started with the pill in anticipation for it to happen. They made the outrageous suggestion my father could take my gfs virginity in order to make our first time together easier. They went on and on about it, and claimed this used to be quite normal in historical times, the father helping the son by taking the virginity of his bride. Through the wine and constant insisting and nagging, they managed to pressure us into saying yes. A couch was converted into a bed and my gf made to lay down on it. My mother and I sat behind them, and she soothed me while my father went through with two intercourses with my gf. It happened in a normal or standard way I guess, but he was obviously so enjoying that, and he used no condom. For the most part, all I could see was his butt. Afterwards my parents congratulated each other with a job well done. I was more or less numb or in shock. My girlfriend had been passive. She'd felt some vaginal pain at first, then tried to get used to what was happening with her. The table and the mess was cleaned, and after giving us some assurances and making some jokes between themselves, they went two bed. Only now did I realize what had taken place. Lather that night, I felt the need to reclaim her, and asked her if I could sleep with her. She said yes. It felt good and was intimate, but when I went down on her, I found a black hair that certainly didn't belong, and she smelled a bit fishy. Basically I lost my virginity in my fathers sloppy seconds. I almost feel there was some gay element to it all. The day after my parents pretended as if nothing happened, but through some inquisition they managed to find out we had been intimate. They claimed it had been easier with their "help" and I was assured she was all mine. As some time has passed, I'm feeling increasingly resentfull. I wonder what their motivation could have been? Sexual pleasure for my father, or did they want to humiliate us? When it was going on, my father looked back at us and asked if we liked the view. My girlfriend of course regrets it, and says we should try to fight through it and get over it eventually. My parents stepped far, far over the line, ruined a special moment for us and made a dirty mess of our love life. Thanks to my father, I'll never sleep with a virgin, as I want to keep my girl. I want to punish them somehow, but I don't want to go as far as to disown my parents. Should I demand an apology from them to both of us? In that case, how can that help us? Or should I simply try to live with it? They of course have noticed my anger.
He's a manipulating Pedophile!! Sick fuck should cut his dick off
You should move far, far, far away from them and seriously consider ending any sort of contact with them. If you stay with your girlfriend you'll never be able to put this horrible experience behind you. I have no idea of their motivation but I do know they have zero respect for you or your girlfriend. I hope your girlfriend isn't pregnant. That would be a horrible thing for you and her and the baby to live with.
In my family Dad is the one with the big money. We are three brothers. My oldest brother is 18 years older and the other is 16 years older. I don't know where it comes from but we were brought up by our Mom that Dad, the Family Patriarch, as Mom called him, would be the man that would spend the night with the brides/daughter-in-laws in the wedding suite. I was 10 when my olderst brother got married and 14 when my second brother got married. Mom, who I loved and totally adored, always had me on her lap and told me that my father would now "welcome the new wife into our family". In front of all guests Dad would lead the bride away from the party amidst the cheers of all guests.
I got married to a cute little latina when I was 28. She was also "welcomed into the family". My mother was the one who talked to the brides to be and she never had any problems convincing them and none ever refused. They were generously rewarded, promises of inheritance and financial security were made, gifts were given to the brides' parents and it was made clear that this "welcoming act" wouldn't be restricted to the wedding night. There would be repeats and any resulting pregnancies (as any form of birth-control was deemed inappropriate) would be very welcome and naturally be also "generously rewarded". My mother also made sure that all our wives were prepared exactly to our father's liking (totally shaved, just wearing stockings and high-heels and nothing else) and suitably instructed as to our father's sexual preferences (the ideal blow-job, the oiled and pre-stretched orifices ready to take his monster) and the suitable soundbites to aid his ejaculation and seeding of their pussies. My wife admitted that she enjoyed sex with me and I was good but my Dad was "in a different league" and gave her the "shags of her life" and that she happily would have his baby (twice with him, once with me, our last son was the result of a "family fest" where many male guests seeded her.
Good grief. It's like you're a bunch of backwoods, mentally challenged hicks. I'm guessing your entire community is related one way or another and none of you has a full set of teeth in your heads. Yuck!
CRAP
Simple:
Tell them you were both pressured into the entire ritual, and were not prepared and willing participants.
Parental Power was used to coerce both of you into a ritual rape.
that is how you feel (humiliated, angry, violated), and that special, if awkward moments that were yours to cherish were stolen from you.
you don't care about their view on the matter, since they did not seek to confirm your enthusiasm....and if they did, they would find it did not exist.
They were selfish, arrogant, and insensitive to your and your gf.
You can't hope to get anything from them before they can confront the ENORMITY of what they have done.
If they cannot, or will not do that, you can simply tell them: You RAPED my GF, and You RAPED our relationship. As long as we are a couple, which we want to be without any view of parting, this will be the truth. Deal with it.
You will gain self-respect by speaking your truth, and accepting no substitutes, and moving to reduce their power in your lives and ability to stage any level of repeat of their coercion, and violation.(set boundaries).
They will regain self-respect if they hold themselves accountable and make a credible apology.
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Credible Apology Forumla:
...1. This is what we did (ritually raped your relationship and gf)...
2. This is what impact it had on you both: (shame, humiliation, shock, grief...etc.... )...
3... This is not how we want to show up in our lives or in yours....
4... This is what we will do to change ourselves to prevent any repeat of this kind of assault, coercion or disrespect:...(give a list of ways the will take notice of you both respectfully, and without presumption and arrogance)
.....you can forgive them NOW, to diminish your rage and humiliation (the past will not change), so you will be able to HEAR their apology.
......once you hear their apology (if it ever comes) it is your choice if or when or how much you ever trust them again.
OK this is obviously fiction by a someone who gets off on sexually submissive scenarios. However, just in case this was written by a young extremely naive boy living at home with sociopathic parents, there is no excuse for allowing your father/ parents to sexually exploit your girlfriend under the absurd pretense that they did this in "historical times." Your father simply liked what you had and took it to demonstrate his sexual dominance over you. The only way he could have done this more completely is if he fucked you directly. And to top it off, your mom got off on the idea of him psychologically castrating you. There is no apology that can make up for this. I suggest, if you and your girlfriend are under age, (it sounds like you may be) you begin looking into getting emancipated, and you and she should blackmail them for every dime you can get. If both you and your girlfriend are adults, your relationship is basically ruined, and unless you want to spend your life being a submissive cuckold (and hey, if that's what floats your boat, go for it...) I suggest you break up with your girlfriend, get your own life and never speak to your parents again. Also kicking your father's ass would a good idea.
You're an idiot for letting this happen. i woulda been like "sorry pop, that's my cherry to pop". you're stupid to even entertain that thought. what the fuck, dude? it's your mistake & now you're pissed. duh...
WTF??? Not cool! Sounds like your parents, your father in particular, are arseholes. As you say they stole a special moment from you both but jeez man, they both wanted him to nail YOUR girlfriend? That's messed up.
Whatever freaky stuff they want to get up to, who cares it's their business, but to do that to their own child is absolutely horrible. Incredibly selfish act.