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Addicted to Cheating.
I've cheated on multiple boyfriends and I don't know how to stop. With my current boyfriend, I love him to death and would do anything to make him happy. I've cheated on him twice with the same guy, one of my exes. He knows, forgives me, and expects me to never do it again. I stopped talking to that ex and I know I won't even cheat with him again. But I have two temptations right now. One of them is my boyfriend's best friend, who is super attractive. Until now, I saw him as a jerk I could never really be interested in. But he's recently been much more kind and sensitive to me. I don't know what I would do if he tried to pull a move on me. I probably couldn't resist. The other guy is one of my good friends. We constantly flirt, and though he always says he's joking, I know he's saying it because I have a boyfriend. He's also very attractive and a really nice guy. If he ever tried anything, I know I'd go along with it. I don't know what gets into me when I cheat, I always feel guilty after, but I don't know how to stop myself from actually doing it.
I'm a cheater too. It's thrilling and exciting. I've always been slutty. I love my boyfriend. I found that I compartmentalize. I've been rationalizing. It doesn't take away how i feel about my boyfriend and doesn't take away from our relationship. I just get extra cock. It's about the act itself and less about the person. I have fucked 2 of his friends so I get your hesitation. But if you are careful and you guys have a conversation and are sure you are both on the same page, then you can definitely fuck him. Think about how hot it will be to treat your boyfriend to a blowjob after you just had his friends cock in your throat earlier. Trust me... do it
Women cheat for far different reasons than men. Sex and having other men telling you you're attractive and flirting can equal love or make you feel loved in your mind and boosts your self esteem. The question is do you really want to stop? Because otherwise you do risk sabotaging all future relationships. At some point, your boyfriend is not going to give you another chance and you're going to have deal with why you are the way you are.
You're a nymphomaniac and there is nothing wrong with that and you seem to like a variety of different men ...let your boyfriends best friend fuck your brains out ...you know you want and need it ...make it happen ...what's to be will be ...happy fucking.
THINK ABOUT THIS YOU MAY GET A STD WOULDN'T TO GIVE THAT TO YOUR BOYFRIEND,,,SEE THE GUY YOU SCREW THINK HOW MANY WOMEN HE SCREW BEFOR YOU CAME ALONE ,,,,JUST THINK ,,,,OKAY IT MAY SAVE YOUR LIFE AND YOUR BOYFRIEND TOO...LIFE....
Obviously you have commitment issues, probably as result of some childhood psychological abuse, neglect or trauma. If you believe in our society's generally accepted moral norm -- that love is monogamous, and cheating is wrong -- as some of your post suggests, then you can't really "love [your current boyfriend] to death," and knowingly cheat or plan to cheat on him. If you truly love him, and are with him under the agreement that being BF/GF means sexual exclusivity, no outside sexual partners and no cheating; then you must make a serious commitment to him and only him (i.e. because you LOVE him and CARE for him and his FEELINGS). You should find a therapist who will help you construct some sort of social/professional support structure by which to effect permanent behavior change. This will likely take years, and honestly it would be unfair to expect your current boyfriend to put up with your cheating while you are getting yourself sorted out. Even if you do these things, success is only possible if you truly want/commit to the life-style change this would require and put real/earnest effort into making these changes real. If you can't or are unwilling to take these steps and make these changes, then out of the mutual respect (which I assume) you have for a fellow human being, you should tell your boyfriend of your problem, that it is indeed YOUR problem (he did nothing wrong), and break up with him.
If you cannot modify your behavior to fit your morals, you must modify your morals to fit your behavior. That means staying single and promiscuous for the rest of your life (and being ok and content with this life), or finding someone who is willing to be in an "open relationship" with you as your habits seem to demand. Of course that likely means they will want the freedom to have sex with whoever they want too. Be sure to always use protection (even with your new equally-promiscuous boyfriend) and make sure you get tested regularly for VDs.
If u are going to cheat on him so be it. Doing it with his friend makes u a complete c***. If you are so addicted and open to cheating then find someone other than his friend. He'll likely need his friends after you screw him over again.
Your just a whole. Case closed!!
Your just a whore plain and simple. Case closed!!