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I lost it.. And I can't believe it :'(
Im 13, almost 14... I'll start by saying I live In a small town In Wisconsin on a Military Base. So you meet Lots of people. I started talking to This Older guy whos like 16-17. I told him about my Parents and how My father Raped my Mother and are Divoriced. He told me about how He was Adopted from Russia. After a while I fell for him, and he fell for me so we started secretly going out. his friends don't exactully like him being with an 8th grader.
So everyday after school While my mom was at work he would come over and we'd go in my basement. After a while it turned into making out. then we started talking about sex. We agreed to wait till he had a condom. I went with it because he knew what he was doing, I'm clueless When it comes to Haveing Sex. So mean while We just kept Making out. Well Today when he came over It was diffrent, We were both hot and heavy. I turned on Titanic and we watched it for a while... then we started kissing. before I knew it I was on him lap, pants down, with him inside of me. I couldn't help but cry when he was gone and I was alone. I Feel broken. I cant believe I did it... I always told myself I wasnt going to be Another Statisitic... I don't know how I will tell My mom... and if I end up pregnant... I dont know what to do.
That's all well and good, but why is this a 'revenge' post. I hardly see a vendetta here.
Hun I lost my virginity at 14 and I had sex with about 4 diferent guys my high school years (which were my boyfriends, not hookups) and I still got called a slut. You're way too young now. I met my current boyfriend/SO at the end of 16, got pregnant at the end of 17, had our baby at 18. I got REAL LUCKY that he was a good guy and helped meout and actually raised our child, but I knew NO ONE my age who got ppregnant that got that lucky. I will tell you now though, that a 16-17 year old boy cannot "love you" nor you him because of the emotional maturity still. My bf and I had a "passionate love" at 17 bt mostly we bonded and were just really really horny and loved eachother the best way two teens could. Now that we're in our mid-20's we get a genuine love because we've both matured and have life experiences and gone through a lot together. Please don't let a boy tell you he "loves" you to get in your pants. Teen boys are shitbags honestly, deep down inside they just wanna get laid. Respect yourself and your body and when you're older you'll thank me!!
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Woman who lost her virginity at 14
If he forced you-as in not having your consent you could tell the police.
But if not don't tell your mum unless you become pregnant.
Bonnie Rotten lost her virginity at 12, and she turned out just fine. So stop worrying.
Sweetheart, don't worry about it. You seem really nice, and don't let anyone think otherwise. It was spur of the moment, it happens. Just clean your slate and tell your boyfriend that it can't happen again until you feel 100% ready. And I hope your mother doesn't get mad when you tell her. In most cases, mother's go really hard on their daughters if they have sex before 18. It can be a difficult time if you have teenage sex, but you learn from your mistakes.
Awright, jus cheeealllax, pixi dust, pixi dust, shit happens, ur not ' jus another statistic, k, ur u, a human being, may not have been what u thought, or hoped ur 1st time was gonna be like, but, for 99% of people, it never is! it s done, can be good 2 get that 1st time out the way, u know, better that, than building up tension, and expectations around what we inevitable will blow out of all proportions, with our over active imaginations! and turn sum peeps in2 'virginal obsessed stress monkeys!' as for the pregnancy thing, jus be sensible, get a home test, go see a doc on th ane pill for any future unplanned romps, it happens! sounds 2 me like u were ready 4 it?! if u hadn't been, u would not have complied so willingly! buy a ferrari, dive a ferrari, dont be surprised when one day ur surprised,... u driving aq ferrari??! ge it?! chill out an enjoy ur body, sensible tho k?!| good luk
To be honest.. you can't complain when people call you a slut.. I mean you're admitting something like this on the INTERNET... you can't expect to not have someone being a dick.
It was great, I loved it. I just felt bad when all was said and done. We told My mom. He was there with me. Im glad I have him. And to those of you calling me a slut and a Whore, It doesnt hurt my feelings, You clearly have no life so you sit and make other people feel bad about Themselves. it doesnt hurt me, I've been through hell.
Look, your too young. Mentally, socially, physically and emotionally, your worlds apart. He wants to fuck a 14 year old girl. IF you do get pregnant this early there can be major health risks to you. come clean and get on birth control. Or, complain about irregular periods or major cramps if you don't wanna come clean. I greatly, greatly advise you to stay away from him. You shouldn't have to hide a real relationship.
Trust me, you don't want to start your life this way. I'm 21, living on my own in college with a new boyfriend. I can tell from experience your first love isn't who your meant to be with. you have soooooooo many years a head of you! I seriously mean with when I say there are more fish in the sea. Your own age. Who would have had enough respect for you to use a condom.
Jus point of fact, there are far more contraceptives avail for females out on 2days market! fact! why should it always fall 2 the man 2 take responsibility for condoms?! talkin about he shud have more respect for her???, im sorry bbut that just no longer has credible substance in 2days society! how the females having respect for themselves?! its a two way street
dont let them discourage you. if you love your man and if he makes you feel good inside then dont stop what the 2 of you are doing. if you dont like condoms or he wont use them then either get your mom to put you on birth control pills or get him to buy you the plan b "morning after" pills. the only problem with starting out not using condoms is that it is going to feel soooooooooooooo good to you to have the meat in you and to have the cream oozing around in you after he cums that you are to totally not ever going to want to start using condoms and in fact you are going to HATE the things. enjoy yourself and enjoy your men.
Life lessons are usually hard to learn, because they are usually taught to us through pain. But please, please ......... don't be so hard on yourself: you aren't nearly the first girl to make love to a man at your age, and you won't nearly be the last. If you like the guy, and if he's nice to you, you don't have to end the relationship, and you don't have to tell your mom. But if he was mean to you, or lied to you, or tricked you, or hurt you, or forced you, then you should tell your mom and make sure he can't do it again, to you or any other girl. You already know that you have to be careful with guys, and you WERE careful with this one, so just chill a little and see what happens. But don't stop seeing him just on account of this, especially if you think it showed how much he cares about you and if you really care about him. Don't worry.
Lmfao slut
Its so common for young girls to feel the way you feel.you were gonna lose it anyway,its natural to have sex when your body is ready,you don't have to cry over it now. From now on make sure you so careful not to have sex without a condom.telling your Mom might not be the good idea. Any way did you enjoy your first time ,did you cum?