My bf doesn't know my past
He does not know my full past. I've told him I've had a few other relationships and that some were short term. But there are things he doesn't know. Such as, I was living with a guy, but also had sex with that guy's friend. I had a threesome with one boyfriend, and this other guy's ex girlfriend. When I was in college, a few times I took on a few guys, where they took turns on me. I was in this guy's dorm room, and there were a few guys.Somehow I was the only girl and things happened.
I would just die if my bf knew about these things. I have not cheated on him and have no desire to cheat on him. I have not confessed these things to him.Because I don't want to mess up our good relationship now.
Let sleeping dogs lie! If he would get off on it, tell him but if he is insecure about the past, guess not. My wife told me about her past and it turns me on so much. Shes faithful now and a good woman. I am also but thinking of her being fuvked by a group of guys in a dorm room gets me hard as hell! Just wish I vouldve seen it!
Silence is golden.
If he knew would it change things?
Don't tell him. If all that's in the past, and you will be faithful, and your relationship is strong, no need to bring up the past.