Ex wife says she’s changed and wants to try again
My ex wife and I have been talking lately and she’s trying to convince me she’s changed. I think she wants to try to get back together.
My ex wife is 5’7” blonde hair blue eyed 110lb very attractive woman. Our problem was that I loved her to dress sexy and I loved showing her off but she didn’t enjoy being shown off. She looks great in most anything she wears, very hot in a short skirt or bikini. When going to the beach she always got looked at and sometimes flirted with but she didn’t like it. When alone anything goes but we had issues when I asked her to dress sexy and go out in public. Occasionally she would wear a miniskirt which she looked amazing in but out in public she didn’t like anyone looking at her long legs and was always sure someone was looking up her skirt. I was always beaming with pride if I saw someone doing this.
She always looked great in some of the sexy lingerie that I bought her and teased that she should wear one and be a hostess when my friends came over. That usually ended with her calling me a pervert because most of them were see through and she stated that she wasn’t showing her nipples and love toy to my friends.
So anyway we have been divorced for 5 years after 10 years of marriage and during our conversations she tells me that she’s changed and would be open to some things that she wasn’t before. She says she’s more confident in herself now than she was before. She hasn’t stated specifically what that means but said some of the things I wanted before were maybe possible now. I agreed to have dinner with her next Saturday. I requested she wear a short skirt so I could see her pretty legs and undergarments were optional. She laughed and said I haven’t changed. At least she didn’t call me a pervert. I said is that a yes? She said we’ll see.
So if she shows up with a miniskirt and no panties I’m not sure what to ask for next to see if she’s really changed. I’ve always maintained that ex’s are ex’s for a reason and stay away but I guess if she can change maybe I can to. Not sure what to do but I guess next Saturday may answer a question or two.
I had an ex gf that said she changed. She was very conservative and didn’t wear sexy clothes. I relented and made a date. When I picked her up she was in the shortest dress I had ever seen and she wasn’t wearing a bra. She looked amazing. She was getting looks from guys all night. She asked if I liked the new look. I said I loved it. We spent the night together and it was amazing. The next morning she said she just wanted to be clear that she wasn’t looking for a relationship and dated a lot. She said she enjoyed sex with me and wanted me to be her bed buddy when she needed it but didn’t want a full time relationship. I guess she has changed. I said call me sometime. She said she would and asked if I liked her outfit. I said I loved it. She said me too she loved dressing this way. She said I really have changed.
"Changing" is more that just changing her panties. Both of you are so shallow that it is an absolute marvel that you both have not evaporated in the sun light.
So you divorced because of clothes. What a bullshit.
No, divorced because of alcoholism. Anything else I could have handled. Just didn’t like what she became when drinking.