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Am I just a body to him?
Sometimes I feel i'm just a body to him.
I'm 53F, but i've worked hard to stay in shape for him.
He's in his 60s, but he too has stayed in shape.
Please don't do any moral lectures here. I say that because this man is my sugar, daddy.
We've been together for over ten years, so we are a long term couple.
I try to share things with him like i've had some family problems with my sister. My aunt had cancer surgery. My son has had health issues. But sometimes I feel I tell him things, and it goes in one ear and out the other. It's like he doesn't offer any constructive feedback of things I tell him. And if I mentioned things to him that I had told him the last time I saw him, he doesn't seem to remember. So I have to start all over and start the story over again.
One time we were out to dinner, i mean, I thought we were really having a heart to heart talk. And he stated, how just he hopes things work out for me. He had no constructive feedback.
And one time we were talking, he stated how he can't really say much, because he doesn't know any of my friends or family. So he doesn't know who these people are. Which is partly true because nobody knows I have a sugar daddy. But he could still understand I'm working thru things with people in my life.
He just seems not to know me as a person. A few times I mentioned how I have a dog. And then he says, oh, you have a dog, like he never had heard that before.
That's why I started to wonder, am I just a body to him.
Thanks for listening, but please no moral lectures. I need the money, so he's an important part of my life. Sometimes I wonder how do I really fit into his life.
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Yes he wants your body
So you are basically a body to him. Full disclosure, I have been a sugar daddy. We had some fun times when most of our fun had to do with sex. So occasionally, we did some other things.Mostly we just met up to fuck. I never met any of her family and friends. I was not involved in her life. She hardly told me much about her life. Mostly we just would go be alone, and that's it
I am a sugar daddy. I like my girl, but i'm really mostly interested in her tits and snatch.
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Yep you're just a body. That's what a sugar daddy is paying for.
Correct. You are not a couple in the way you think you are. You are his sex toy.
When you speak, he hears, "we're not fucking, Not fucking, still Not fucking. Why is she still talking?"
Does he confide in you about his dog, sisters, family? Likely not. He may have others like you.
Enjoy being taken care of. If you want love, break it off.
Hmm, sugar daddy: same as paid companionship, same as escort service, same as paid prostitution with a friendly bent... You give what you’re paid for and he wants only what he pays for. End of sad story.
Yes you are a body. Just a body.
He doesn't want to be involved with your life problems. He's only 1/2.listening to you. He can't give you support as a boyfriend would. Because he is not a boyfriend.