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Would you consider dating a female that did porn?
I'm kinda seeing this girl and we've went out a few times. She's kind and fun to be around. I think she's out of my league and can't believe she's went out with me more than once.
On our last date, she said she liked me and wanted to continue seeing me but she wanted to get something out there before we continued. She wanted me to know now so I can decide to continue on and we don't waste each other's time. My mind was going crazy.
She told me she did porn for three years when she was young. btw; She's 27 now. She told me her porn name (Not listing it due to privacy on this site) so I could look her up on IAFD to see her history. She told me she's never had a STD and had countless tests over the years and can prove she's clean. She wanted me to know if I'm comfortable having sex with her we can use a condom until I'm comfortable not.
We're still seeing each other but haven't had sex yet.
I looked her up later. Her profile pic is not good but it's her. Says she began 2016-2019 and been with 15 girls and 9 guys. Not that it matters but three guys were black.
She's just wanting to move on with her life but found out it's better to be up front with her past.
Any advice?
Ex-wife eventually admitted to having been coerced into doing porn vids with her brother when they were kids by their late biological father.
I did my best to be supportive about it but as time went on she started going into further details and how addicted she became to sex with her brother when they were alone together. It started getting just way too creepy for me and I filed for a divorce.
My second wife has recently revealed that she was sexually molested as a preteen by an adult female babysitter.
I am getting ready to bale out of here.
I'd first have to see the vids. Then I would only risk dating her if she was under 13.
Yea, totally agree with you.
I would love to see more videos of my wife fucking other men before we got together. When we started dating, she gave me a video and told me to watch it. I did and I watched as her ex-fiancee fucked her. And also nine other guys fucked her. It turned me on watching all of them fuck her. She asked me if I still wanted to date her and I said that I did. We fucked for the first time that night and knowing that many guys had been between her legs made me hornier than ever.
Have you watched any of her movies yet? Just to get an idea what it would be like to fuck her?
Dude, what's your problem? She is a girl and did what she did for any number of reasons. Ask her if you want. But not dating her because she did porn? Nope, not a reason. The absolute best sex of my life was the 2 hours I spent with a porn star. I saw her profile on an escort site, looked up her porn. I contacted her but she never replied. Crazy thing is, about 3 months later, she texts me and says sorry she missed my text asking to meet. Can we still get together. Turns out I was on my way to the same town she was going to. So we arranged a 2 hour meeting early one morning. Let me tell you, this was the best 2 hours of sex in my life. She was incredible. I'm sure not all porn stars are great. But it is just sex, nothing more, she isn't going to leave you for one of the guys she did porn with. She is asking to be with you. If she is tested, she is fine, or use a condom.
Did she suck your dick?
Yes she sucked my dick almost as often as my dick was in her pussy. Sex with her was the most fun of any girl I have been with, and I have been with a lot.
Absolutely! That's a proverbial selling point; not a detraction
I'd ask how she got into porn to begin with. It is not normal. She could have psychological issues.
A) Sounds like she didn't get any permanent disease. That is good.
B) Make sure she doesn't have a drug habit. Many porn girls do.
C) Make sure she's not still in that circle.
Thanks for your reply and advice.
The few times she's brought it up, I let her talk until she stops and shuts the door. I don't press it because I can tell it bother's her a lot. She's willing to talk and told me she has trust issues and fells like I honestly care and don't just want pervy details. That's why she's talked to me about it more than she has with anyone else. btw; I do care about her.
Here's what she's told me.
She did it for the quick money. It was a job. Some days your job is fun and easy some days are shitty & long.
She claims she's only smoked pot. No other drugs.
I'm sure she doesn't communicate with anyone in that circle because she keeps telling me she's trying to move on. When she quit back in 2019, she moved back home. Her parents knew, they were worried and have helped a lot since she came home and helped her go to college.
The past is the past and cannot be changed so if you like her let it go and accept it. I dated a nude dancer. She wanted to be honest with me and told me she danced. She said she wasn’t quitting because the money was good and if it was a problem she understood if I didn’t want to date her anymore. I said before I made that decision I wanted to come watch her dance. She said she would love that. I went and watched and it was an upscale club. It was kinda hot watching her on stage. I asked if she ever did special things for customers. She kinda got rigid and said she was a dancer not a hooker. She said she had slept with other men but not from the club and not for money. We dated for three years and she never made me feel like she wasn’t loyal. We stopped dating because my job transferred me out of state and a promotion. I didn’t have a problem with her dancing and she always came home to me. I sometimes wish I had married her and took her with me if she was willing to relocate but I didn’t feel comfortable asking her to give up what she enjoyed for me. Don’t give up on something you like because of the past. Remember she is being honest.
No I would. I only date virgins.
I'm sure you should date her because think of all the good sex. She has lots of experience in sucking dicks.