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Wife admits her affair
My wife and i are empty nesters and almost ready to retire.
I have a job with an international company that requires me to travel quite often.
My wife works in a law office.
Because of our schedules, ( actually mine) we don't have sex very often. I know my wife would like us to be more intimate, but I am busy or exhausted.
However recently my wife has been talking about a new associate and has been bubbly and happy. She talks about Brad so much that I told her one day, " Jeez El, then fuck him for Christ sake."
I came home from a trip a few weeks later and my wife had changed her look. She cut her hair and got new clothes, changed her makeup. She looks younger and sexier.
I asked her what motivated her to make the changes and she said, "I fucked Brad."
I was floored and yet when the shock wore off, somehow I was turned on. My wife and I talked. We both don't want a divorce, but she wants more sex than i can provide. We agreed that she can continue to fuck Brad, but I want to be able to watch. My wife finally agreed if he is ok with it but she also wants to fuck him alone.
Is this a really odd thing? I am reading more and more where couples are having others in their sex life. ( I'm 59 she is 55 Brad is 32)
Cheating on you was kind of a shitty way to do it. But lots of married couples practice some form or another of "ethical nonmonogamy" where one or both of them has partners outside the marriage. Polyamory, swinging, cuckolding, hotwifing, you name it. Just negotiate rules and boundaries and everyone needs to state their needs and expectations.
My girlfriend needs more sex than any one guy could ever give her. So we have an arrangement, it isnt a free for all, we have rules and boundaries that we set.
The more advanced weve gotten, rules and boundaries and goals changed the more comfortable we've become. At 7 plus years, things are really really good.
My husband and I are mid 50s and married for 32 years.
During the lockdown, I got a little too drunk and confessed to having an affair.
However, it was during the first three years of our marriage, we were living in a different town, I was working my first job after college, we were living in a different state, he was late 40s and married.
I could tell my husband got a little upset but after assuring him it was only once, a long time ago and we used protection. Thankfully, he forgave me based on that excuse.
The truth:
It was a lot more than once and went on for a few years. He was married but separated and living in an apartment 10 minutes from work. We never used a condom. Not even once. I was on birth control because we were not ready to start having kids and he'd had a vasectomy.
He was hot and amazing in bed so it was way too easy for us to take a long lunch or me stop at his place before going home. It ended when they got back together and he gave up the apartment.
We were early in our marriage so at the time, my husband and I were having sex almost each day. I don't have the heart to confess the countless times I had sex with both of them in the same day.
Damn lady. I’m horny as fuck now
Nah, happens all the time, let wife have fun. Spice it up, have an open marriage before you get older.