Finally got to actually fuck my wife again
We're both in our early 50s and have been married almost 30 years. During much of our marriage, we didn't use any birth control, but for whatever reason kids never happened. About ten years ago, we made the decision to start using protection again, primarily by me using condoms. She had started menopause a few years ago and a few months ago hit two full years since she'd had her last period. At about 18 months, I started hinting around about doing her bareback again, but she was always hesitant, still afraid of the possibility of getting pregnant. While I figured we were fine, I love and respect her enough to not push her about it, but I would mention it occasionally and ask her to think about it.
On Easter Sunday a few weeks ago, we had gone to church and came back home. We had a couple of hours to kill before we needed to go to her aunt's house for Easter dinner, so I started flirting with her. She was looking very lovely, wearing a very pretty spring dress that she'd recently bought, along with nude pantyhose, which she knows I'm a sucker for. She tells me she doesn't think she's in the right mood for sex, but we can cuddle and kiss some. We start to kiss and eventually have stripped down to just our underclothes and are cuddling in bed.
Being a typical guy, I get her bra unhooked and start kissing and sucking her tits. She starts getting heated up, and responds with an enthusiastic YES when I ask her if she wants her pussy eaten. I pull her hose and panties off of one leg and put my tongue to work, pleasing her until she climaxed. Teasing her, I moved up between her legs and slid my cock across her pussy and acted like I was going to stick it in. She looked at me and shrugged. I asked her "Really?" She said it had been two years since her last period and that I had been more than patient and understanding about it. I pushed myself in and started pumping, asking her several times over the next few minutes of she was sure. Finally, I knew I was getting close and told her "last chance." She looked me in the eye with a smile and said "just shut up and fuck me." So I did.
We talked afterwards and she said she had no regrets or second thoughts, and now we're both looking forward to this next phase of our sex life.
You guys did overkill on the caution during menopause. Could have been fucking bare much sooner.
Give her 25mg of delta 8 gummy, and see if she becomes a sexual Tyrannosaurus like my wife did. Up until that time, she was milquetoast.
I cannot wait for this to happen again - my wife is gorgeous and in early menopause b:c of med issues.
I know it will one day but the lack of desire is killing me :(. I’m so glad you got to reconnect with her
Not OP, but the wife and I are in the same situation. Early menopause and med issues have eliminated her sex drive. It sucks. And I’m in TRT and my sex drive is ramped up even more than when we were younger. I know it’ll get better eventually but it sucks balls at the moment.
I’ve never connected more with a NP story…