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Cravings. Am I alone?
I'm 26, married to a great guy. I thought marriage would cool me out. Since I was 13 I basically needed an orgasm to feel "normal" every day, otherwise sex was all I thought about. To get relief, most of my solution was masturbation.
I became sexually aware when I was very young and I'd mount anything hard: furniture, makeshift toys, etc. That desire has never gone away, although I wish it would. It has led me to this site and real acts of depravity in real life. I have shame.
I don't know how guys operate. but do you need to have an orgasm regularly to feel normal? I'm happily married, but crawling out of my skin for more.
There is just nothing better than orgasms and fucking. Help my fucking being, I have been struggling.
I have to cum daily too or I start to feel ill. Let's talk about it. I'm mikedaman1970@gmail.com
My wife was the same way she was constantly horny and I couldn't keep up with her. She would masturbate herself in the car when we were driving to a club or a restaurant. I had to move didlos and vibraters so I could get in bed at night. My dick was sore and limp and I couldn't get hard i told her that she needs a another man to satisfy her sexual needs so I could get some rest. She started fucking other guys and she still wanted me just not as much as before we still had sex probably 4 times a week and I was sleeping at night when she was out with someone else. I don't know how many guys she has fucked over the years she did start slowing down when she was in her 40s. Luckily we never had any kids and she's never gotten pregnant by someone else. Now she only has one boyfriend that she is seeing and he and I have become friends i could go on and on about the things she has done with other men but it's would take a lifetime to tell it all.
My jewish ex was like that. If she was alone too long she would smell like dog jizz
"I thought marriage would cool me out" a story as old as time, "maybe if I commit, my personality and interests will change".
You should talk to a sex therapist. You have so much shame, you think there's something wrong with having a healthy high libido. You haven't really accepted yourself, thought having a great man would "fix" you but there was nothing wrong to fix in the first place. You need therapy girl.
And better sex toys.
I don't know if your man has a libido or kinks or whatever, but it's VITAL that couples have open conversations about their sexual needs, and odds are you can at least hint about your own needs to him. Ever whispered fantasies to each other? Watched porn together? Hell, it'd be fantastic if you could just open up the marriage, but culture has trained people to be closed-minded about that and it's rare to find cool partners into it. All things to be discussed with a third-party because you're in this too deep to have good perspective on your own. Which is to say, sex therapy baby.
Hell, literally a single 1-on-1 meeting with a sex therapist changed my life and unraveled some huge mental hangups I had. Now I'm poly, married to a great woman who'd love to have more threesomes, sharing fantasies and porn with each other occasionally, but most of all, I feel like she (and I) are comfortable with me as me. And if my needs get crazy, I have a healthy outlet to take it out on. Either her if she's available, or a FWB I have on the side. But I'm a more extreme example. If you can't even talk about your sexual needs with your partner, gotta start there.
Btw, people who ignored their sexual needs for too long easily fall prey to the first cute guy who gets serious about seducing them. Then marriage gets complicated in the worst of ways. You gotta address this and acknowledge your own needs before some random hottie makes you an offer you can't resist.
I think it’s pretty normal. Some people just have higher sex drives than others. I’m close to 50 and have always had a substantial sex drive compared to my wife. Even though we still fuck regularly, I still masturbate at least once or twice a day.