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Wife has stage IV cancer; no desire
I try to be such a good husband - take her to her appts, listen to her concerns. Be there for her.
But this caregiver thing is stressful - I have this desire to ravish a woman like I used to with her. Her desire is zero lately. She doesn’t even want kisses and gentle caresses in the morning. She used to love that.
I’m a good Christian husband - but I want to ravish a woman, I don’t care what age…. 18 - 80 hehe. I love giving oral and miss it - love cream all over my face.
Tell me this is normal anyone that’s experienced this. So many emotions going on - wishing it was the way it used to be. But this is the new “normal”. I can’t go on with intimacy 12 times a year. I need it more
We had a friend who was deep into stage 4 cancer, she asked my wife to take care of her husband, and for the next 7 months, he fucked my wife 3/4 times a week. My wife kept saying, she was only helping them through a difficult time. Then after his wife died, he gave my wife her car, and invited my wife to sleep over every weekend, she still goes to his home three years later.
Im sorry to hear that. If your in Texas i can help you out. Doesn't need to be personal or anything I can just be a fuck outlet for you.
Op here - I wish I was; I am in Georgia
My wife is suffering from cancer and now under chemotherapy. For the last 6 years we are without sex! I however resort to masturbation but don't know what she does to satisfy her sexual urge, if any. We sleep in separate rooms ...
You fucking take care of her for life. You can still jack off, hell get a toy. Don't be selfish, she's your wife, until death do you part. Man if, and I pray she don't, but if she passes, do your thing. Take care of her, please. She is counting on you man!
This is the only right answer.
I don't know why people have such a proprietary idea of sex. You are in committed relationship with someone to take care of them. What does that have to do with having sex with someone else? In my opinion nothing. But then again, I am married to a woman that does not want sex and I want it a lot so I find one night stands. The girls I fuck are just fuck buddies for the moment. No relationship required, it's just sex between two consenting adults.
I see no problem in having sex with anyone you want. AS longs they agree.