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On occasion my ex wife and I talk on the phone. We have been divorced over 20 years. One evening when we were talking on the phone I confessed something to her. On our honeymoon we went to an island resort. I bought her this tiny thong swimsuit to wear. I told her I liked showing her off. She had slim legs, a cute butt and beautiful breasts. She said she kind of thought that about me (that I liked showing her off). The beach was a topless legal beach that we were on and my new wife took advantage of it being legal and took her top off. I told her I loved her going topless. She said it was awkward at first but she realized that she wasn’t going to run into anyone we knew so she took her top off. She said she loved the warm sun on her bare chest. I told her I wish I had taken pictures of her on the beach she looked so nice.
She said really? Did you really think I looked nice being topless. I said of course! Why did she think I took her for a walk down to the crowded part of the beach. She said OMG I remember that. So many men looking at her topless. I said yes and with her in that tiny thong swimsuit it was almost like showing her off naked. She said it was interesting talking to people on the beach and her bare breasts on display and watching people look at them. I told her I loved them looking at them. I told her that I always thought about asking her to show them to my friends but didn’t want to offend her. She said I told her that once but she thought I was joking. I laughed and said you have no idea the things I wanted to ask but was afraid to offend her. She said like what? I said well there was always the football party that I wanted her to be the topless hostess. She laughed and said showing her boobies to my football friends might have been fun. I said oh it gets worse. She said worse? I laughed and said remember when we used to go to the nude strip club? She said yeah and she always had fun even though I was afraid she would be mad if I looked too long at a dancer. She said it was a nude club and she didn’t mind if I looked or she wouldn’t have gone there with me. She said some of the dancers were very pretty and she admired them as well. I said well that’s what gets worse, I always wanted to see her dance on stage but wouldn’t ask her to. She laughed and said OMG it’s funny that I say that. I asked why? She said she always wondered what it would be like to be one of the dancers and be naked on stage. I said really you wanted to try it? She said She wasn’t sure about trying it but she always wondered what it would be like. She asked if I would have been upset if she would have tried it and got naked on stage? I said upset? Not at all I would have loved it. She said but she would have been showing more than just her boobies. I said I always pictured her on stage and thought how cool it would have been for everyone to see it all. I said I even pictured her with legs spread on stage showing that pretty pussy to all. She said well that’s being blunt. Then she asked if I really thought her pussy was pretty? I said you always kept it clean shaven and yes I thought it was pretty. She laughed and said still do. We finished our conversation asking each other why we didn’t ask or act on the things we wanted and wondered about. Then she said, maybe we were more alike than we thought. I said maybe. Then she said something that I can’t quit thinking about. Before she said goodbye she said you know, I really did enjoy the time we spent together even though it ended badly. Then she said, and just for the record, she would have done any of what we talked about if only I had asked. It makes me wonder if we would still be together if I had.
My ex and I never did anything other than her dressing sexy when we went out. One of our conversations a few years after our divorce I told her I had fantasies about her when we were together. She asked what kind of fantasies. I admitted to her that I had always wanted to have a superbowl party and have her be the sexy hostess. She laughed and said she could have done that. I said well that’s not all. I said I always wanted her to be the hostess topless. She said OMG! There was silence for a moment. She said so you wanted me to show your friends my titties? I said she had wonderful pretty titties and I imagined her entertaining the guys topless. She said what do you mean entertain? I said just serving them food and drinks and letting them look at her big titties and pretty nipples. She said OMG she couldn’t imagine showing her titties to our friends. I said ever since she went topless on vacation once I had that fantasy. She said that was different, she didn’t know anyone on that beach. I said no but all she had on was a tiny thong and guys were looking. She said that was different. She said the only time she felt odd was when the guys beach volleyball team stopped and talked to us and it was obvious they were checking out her body. I said yeah and I fantasized about her being naked on that day and the team seeing her pussy too. She said OMG and called me a perv. She asked if I ever pictured her “entertaining” my friends naked? I said honestly yes. There was silence again. I thought I was going to get an earful. Then she said she didn’t understand why I would want my friends to see her naked. All I could say was I thought she was hot and wanted to show her off. She started laughing. I asked why she was laughing. She said she was just imagining showing all she had to my friends. I said me too and laughed.
My ex wife played strip poker with the guys and me one evening. Of course she lost everything. I talked to her a few years later and asked if she remembered that night. She laughed and said how could she forget. She said she was ok with losing her top and the guys seeing her titties. She said setting at the table topless was kind of fun with the guys looking. She said she was scared shitless when she lost everything but was determined not to show it. She said losing her panties to Tom and watching him take them off of her was unreal. She said she knew he was getting a good look at her pussy and every one else too once she was naked. She said but she was determined not to chicken out and let them look if they wanted. I laughed and said you did good! She said she thought I enjoyed everybody seeing her naked. I said honestly I loved it. She said I knew it! She said she knew I liked her showing her titties but didn’t know I liked people seeing her pussy too. I told her I thought she was hot and I was thrilled watching Tom take her panties off and everyone seeing her pussy. She laughed. She said can you imagine what we would have done if we had stayed together? She said I would have been having her spread for everyone. I laughed and said probably.
My ex was always a bit of a tease when my friends would come over. She might walk through the house in just a t-shirt that just barely covered her butt. Her med large breasts jiggling under her t-shirt and hard nipples poking out. Sometimes she would set with us and talk to my friends dressed like that. She might walk by me and I might stop her and pull her t-shirt up and uncover her butt and say doesn’t she have a nice butt? She would giggle and say honey stop I’m not wearing any panties. She would always look around at the guys admiring her butt and wait for me to pull her shirt back down. She would set on my lap wearing just a spaghetti strap nighty and I would slip the straps off her shoulders. She would say oh no honey. I would laugh. She would say I know what’s next please…. She sat on my lap while I pulled her top down exposing her breasts. She would laugh a shy laugh a shake her boobies. I sometimes pulled it up from the front. She would giggle while I held it up and say I need to start wearing panties but let everyone look. After we split up I talked to her and we would talk about those times. She told me she didn’t mind it. She said she knew I liked showing her off and she always liked the guys reaction to the way she was dressed and said it was fun to have me show her boobies or her other goodies without panties. She said she always wondered why I didn’t just take it off and show her naked. She said it would have been ok as long as I was doing it. Who knew?
My ex was a nude dancer before we got married. About 5 years into our marriage she asked if I would object if she went back to dancing. She said she missed the attention she used to get when performing for a group of men. I said really? She said there was nothing better than having a group of regulars come in just to see her perform. She said she missed watching them get turned on watching her. I said I would compromise if she wanted and I would invite friends over to watch her. She said she would try that if I wanted. She was back in her fun mode dancing for my friends. She was nude, the guys loved her and she would spread to see them get turned on admiring her. Afterwards she said she was happy with that. Now she lets me know when she needs to dance and I invite friends over to watch. She loves it when the same guys come back to watch her like when she was at the club. One night the guys came over without her knowing they were coming. They said they needed to watch her dance. And brought a newbie with them. She was thrilled to dance for them and seemed to enjoy picking on the newbie a little. When they left she said she enjoyed them dropping by wanting to see her perform for them. She said thats the way she wanted it to happen from now on. She laughed and said the newbie was a little shy. I said how did she know. She said when she spread in front of him, he was shy about looking at her pussy and he blushed a little. Plus he had a raging lump in his pants. We do this maybe once a month or so. She’s happy and I like showing her off.
I have an ex that loved to be dominated. Of course I didn’t realize it at the time. I just thought she was doing things for me but in reality it was for her. She got a really dark tan one summer and with friends over I demanded she take her top off to show her tan lines. She would do it and look at me and say is it ok if I put my top back on. Sometimes I said yes and sometimes I said no I like you like that and make her stay topless. I told her I wanted her to shave bare. She said she didn’t want to. I made her spread her legs and I shaved her. She asked why? I said I like it and I might want to show it to my friends. She said oh please don’t make me do that. A few days later with friends over I said honey show the guys your tan lines. She said oh please don't embarrass me. I said show them. She shyly took her top off. Standing there with the guys seeing her topless she said can I put my top on? I said no. I said as a matter of fact show them your tan lines on the bottom. She said what? I said take your shorts off. She unbuttoned her shorts and slid them off. Standing in just her panties I said show them what a good job I did shaving you. She said oh noooo honey please no. I said what do you mean no? TAKE YOUR PANTIES OFF! Everyone watched as she slid her panties off. Between the tan lines and clean shaven pussy she looked great. She asked if she could get dressed. I said let everyone see your bare pussy and you can get dressed. She did. It wasn’t until after we split up she admitted how much she liked being dominated and made to show herself to my friends.
Yeah, well. Great images to masturbate to! Hope she didn't tell you all of this as a way of hurting you again?
I don’t think she told me those things to try and hurt me. I think she was serious when she said she would have done the things I thought about. When on the beach she really liked the guys looking at her topless. She told me at the beach that showing her nipples to men on the beach was sexy fun. I think she would have been comfortable hosting a party for my friends topless or even nude so no I don’t think she said it to hurt me.
I made my shy ex strip for my friends. I had her show everything. She used to be so nervous and shy about showing what she had between her legs. We talked about 3 years later and I apologized for making her do that. Surprisingly she said don’t apologize. She said you showed me something about myself that I didn’t know. I said I didn’t understand. She said when I made her strip it was an eye opening experience. She explained that that’s when she discovered she liked being dominated. She said she was so scared taking her top off and them seeing her naked breasts. At the same time her body was on fire at being forced to strip. She said when she had to take the rest off she felt that she had no choice and once naked she thought what now. She said then you made me spread my legs and show my shaved pussy. She said she was so turned on being a slave to what I wanted. She said she didn’t understand it then but she does now. She said she discovered she liked being dominated. She said her current bf sometimes makes her strip for his friends and sometimes makes her play with herself until she cums. She said, so don’t apologize because that’s when she discovered how much she liked having to do those things. I wish I had known that then.
You will never known. I'm right there with you. I know i missed opportunities with my ex. I wonder what might have been.