Just found out about my husbands secret
Recently I reconnected with a few old girlfriends from my years of being single. We hadn't seen each other for over a decade as I relocated to different state with my husbands new career. We just grew apart. No two of them are still married and the third is recently divorced. So I went back home for a funeral of a relative and the four of us decided to meet up for a few drinks and catch up. After a few drinks then a couple more we were all feeling pretty good when Lynn my friend that just got divorced started talking about my husband and let it slip out that she should not have broken up with him. I never new she dated my husband before I did so I was in disbelief, but hid my feelings partly as I was pretty buzzed. Anyhow as I played along not seeming to care she says that she wouldn't have gotten over him having been with our other friends which is why she broke up with him. They all admitted to having hooked up with him before I met him and had kept it from me to protect me after they saw me falling for him. I now just learned why my new husband took an out of state job when we got married. He had been with all three of my friends and almost married one of them. It's been a couple of days and I'm still trying to digest this.
Dec 3
What a dose of reality. Do your girlfriends husbands know? I wonder why they told you about this? You think any of them have hooked up since you got married?
Its sex. Why do so many people get in a tizzy when someone fucks someone else? It's sex, it's fun.
He has a past just like you have a past.
He has a history. Unless he's cheating leave it alone.
Throw his ass out..Get a Good Lawyer...Have fun being single...Go have fun sex with whomever YOU choose. I know it's bugging you ..I promise you will get better. It's his loss.
You people should try swinging.
Yeah - lotta fun when one of the guys comes and plops down at our table at the company Xmas party.
My wife said, you're just jealous because he could make me cum with his tongue!.....then "I returned the favor and swallowed his cum!"
So....I'm sitting there with two people who know what the other's crotch tastes like.
Get real. It's not like your husband was a virgin when you met him. You knew he was not a virgin when you met him. You probably were not a virgin when you met him. So what exactly is the problem?
I had only been with one guy before my husband and I knew he had been with a number of girls but he never told me that any were my closest friends. I'm feeling very jealous of him after learning about him and my friends.
It's hard knowing your spouse has had your friends. I know as I'm in the same situation with my wife. I try to put it out of my mind because I know that I also had others before we got married. Just remember he chose you to be his life partner and not your friends.
I'm thinking about seeing one of my husbands best friends. His buddy has been making passes for me for years and I've always laughed it off but now I'm wanting to sleep with him really bad.