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My first time
I'm embarrassed to tell about my first. I was 24, in grad school, and he was a student I tutored. I did tutoring in grad school.
Background, I was fatter in high school and college, so never dated. Guys weren't interested in me.
I lost some weight but still visibly heavier. Anyway, I tutored him at my apartment.
I felt like something snapped in me and my hormones went into overdrive.
Anyway I really made the first move. I tutor him and he told me he got a B plus on his exam, i said we need to celebrate. We went out to dinner and then we were back at my place.
I started kissing him and he was getting into it too. A lot happened that night. And we continued seeing each other even after the semester was over. We drifted apart different aspects of his personality didn't agree with me. And sometimes I felt he was just coming over for sex.
Graduated the next year from college and he moved away so haven't heard from him in 20 years.
Anyway, whenever anyone talks about their first time. I never really tell them about this guy. I told them about my first real serious boyfriend not this guy.
My first lover was very experienced and really good at it and truthfully while that experience and the subsequent times were fantastic. I had at least one orgasm every time we did it. Unfortunately, he was a player, and I got dumped when he found his next victim. Then I met my future husband, and he was a virgin, and he was such a gentleman. The first time with him was so weird as he was awkward, and I didn't tell him that I wasn't a virgin. So, it was like I had to act as if I was a virgin too. Which was sort of hilarious, because I was really getting into it. I told him that I didn't have a hymen because I'd been barrel riding since I was 13, and I was so excited because he was the right man and that I never thought that sex could be so good. 20 years ago and he still believes me
The first time is a pain in the ass. You just have to get through it so you can have fun later
Everybody's first time is a disappointment
Everybody is embarrassed on their first time.
I guess you weren't meant to be long term.
Is a funny statement of yours that you made the first move. But then it sounds like you were angry at him when he came over for sex.